I found the name CuntDracula to be funny personally.
I got a little laugh at it, but yes, they have been banned for choosing an inappropriate name
I suspect @Starchild is a fake profile. Has anyone seen her? The pics are actually a singer, I won’t say her real name. I messaged her and asked her if it’s really her and no reply. She lists her age as 29 and she’s actually 46. The pics and profile aren’t inappropriate but I do think it’s a fake.
Today I tried to set up a cuddle session for the first time. When texting my prospective cuddler he asked for additional pictures of me to “prove who I am”. When I asked for a pic also I was sent a nude pic of him in the shower with an erection. When I said that this is not the intention of the site he seemed shocked. I’m not naive but this seems truly inappropriate. Am I correct?
@cr1438 - You should report him immediately.
Thank you. Done.
yeesh. Yeah you are well correct.
@cr1438 And unfortunately, there are more out there so ill-intentioned. It’s up to @Mark and @reurbo who drop the banhammers left and right on such bad apples. You can see multiple forum posts in this regard. As such, don’t be too surprised, only report them promptly.
@mirandayamel is a pro that advertises as she will see anyone. I sent her a message and she replied saying she only sees women and then blocked me. There is something suspect about this user.
Also check out @raylongdick and @goodboi
Wow... Really? Oh, and at the time of this message, I haven't seen anything happen to these accounts...
The notice says an action is usually taken within 48 hours. I think there are only two or so people who moderate the site, so I would give it time.
Indeed. Perhaps these bad profiles are just proliferating more than before given the closure of other sites which may have been more accommodating.
Yes, currently @Mark and I are the only ones that go through to check reports. I try to check a couple or a few times a day when possible while other days I may only check once. But yes, reporting a profile we do try to get them addressed as quickly as possible
@Morpheus I've banned both of those and I am looking into the Pro you mentioned. Thank you!
Mark and Reurbo are generally so quick about correcting these things that I’ll log in and see a member was flagged, I’ll click on them and then I’m disappointed I wasn’t able to see their profile before it was banned lol
That's true lol When I report members, even I'm unsure they are really quick to get on their cases, that I'm reassured that I did right with reporting them. I don't even know why I feel unsure ugh
@Morpheus yeah she did the same thing to me @mirandayamel
@navyman35 I was told that she’s doing that to all guys who contact her. I’m sure she’s a fake or up to no good. She should be banned or removed as a pro.
@Morpheus @navyman35 She has been contacted about this and it is being addressed.
Are cleavage pictures appropriate on here? I seen a profile where the lady had a picture of her face which was fine. Then a picture of her from the neck down(no face) in a low cut dress with cleavage showing, and a picture from the waist down in tight leggings. I don't get the impression that this is someone with "platonic" intentions. I think that it's obvious that there are some pro's on here that are doing more than just cuddling and have been bringing the influx of guys mistaking us for escorts.
Going by your description, that is not appropriate. Please do report the profile. Thanks.
@NyraLove .. looks suspecting. I asked for a session, she responded asking for mobile number at first.
@satguy Thank you for that info and the tip.
_iknowimcute is in his underwear heh
I think I come off too stand off-ish but I get the feeling that guys here want "sensual" contact which I'm not cool with
That whole jokingly asking for sexy pics, and requesting lingerie as attire is not going to happen with me.
I've been on here for a little more than 24 hours and I'm having hesitations
I get the feeling that this where everyone from CL & back page ended up (I read the news)
I think people like that will ruin it for those of us that think this needed. I truly believe that.
Radinka, please report anything inappropriate. Mark and reurbo need all the help they can get. Users helping makes the site better by weeding out the ones not her for platonic intentions.
@Radinka you can help prevent it by reporting people like that.
I will do so
I found the "jokes" as a repeated effort to test the waters and push the limit
These guys had requested my number and that's when the "playing around" started
So, has anyone seen the film "Temple Grandin"? Okay, so she is this brilliant woman that happens to be autistic. She built a contraption that "cuddles" her and puts her at peace. This woman is quite a remarkable person. So, given that and studies of how newborns are affected if deprived of touch when born, I feel we all benefit from contact. I think we depend on it. This is why I want to learn, I want to hear people and get to know (I majored in psychology and sociology) and I just experience that. I felt uncomfortable and annoyed with their "jokes"
I think this is just marvelous idea, I love this! I hope that guys like that find other places to be creepy, or even better, just quit being creepy. Right?
Hi Radinka, It's very sad that you are getting such a bad experience. Unfortunately, when someone acts like a jerk here, it reflects badly on the entire community. All I can say is... don't give up! I've met wonderful people through the site and have amazing cuddling sessions. Yes, there's a few bad apples, but don't let that stop you from finding what you are looking for.
@Radinka Hello! Yes, if you come across a profile that is breaking the rules or another member messages you something questionable or flat out inappropriate (requests for "sexy" pics, anything fetish related, etc..), even if they follow it with "I was only joking".. please report them for the matter to be looked into. We have a great community of people here, but members reporting those that don't plan to follow the Terms & Conditions to using the site for the reason it was intended and aren't here for platonic reasons, trying to use it for dating, hook up, or sexual reasons, helps keep things that way. Hope this helps and hope your experience changes for the better!