Hello all, just recently was recommended this site from a friend who is on it. I was curious about a few things. Is this mostly geared toward cisgender men seeking cisgender women CCs? Any advice or warnings for someone starting out?
It's for all people who want to cuddle
Here’s some advice I wish I was given when I first started:
Make sure this is something you truly love to do because if it’s not, it’s going to eat at you and your Cuddlers can pick up on that feeling too!
Make sure to get their name and photo and meet somewhere publicly first. Never give out your address or go to their home without even meeting them.
Make sure to have a safety contact. Someone that has the Cuddler’s name, photo, when your cuddle starts and stops, the address of the cuddle. And let your cuddler know you have a safety contact.
Never take communication off site unless after a few cuddles, you feel comfortable enough with the person to do so. Some people will try to make a booking with you solely to get your number. And others want your number so that they can ask you inappropriate stuff off site. Just tell them you prefer to keep communication on site. It’s so much easier.
Never accept drinks or food from them unless your public meet up is at a restaurant/cafe. Buy your own drinks to make sure. Don’t consume alcohol or drugs. Keep a clear head when you’re with someone new!
Always take the money upfront before you start cuddling. Don’t get it at the end. Make it a practise to get it before you start!
Everybody is welcome here. All you have to do is follow the - perfectly reasonable - terms of service.
You may find these threads helpful:
How to Create a Great Profile
Understanding Boundaries & Etiquette
New Professionals! Here Is Everything You Need To Know
New Professionals - 12 Top Tips to get More Enquiries
Training Courses for Cuddle Professionals
How to make it as a MALE professional cuddler (Slightly tongue-in-cheek since men professionals rarely attract many clients, but nonetheless potentially useful for all professionals.)
How To Choose Your Professional Cuddler
The Perfect Opening Message (to a professional)
Ten Things Your Professional Cuddler Wants You to Know
How to Save Money on Professional Cuddling
Top Tips for New Enthusiast Women
I'm a non-pro woman on this site, and here's what I look for in a first message.