I have a question. I have been meeting with a professional cuddler and so far the experience has been amazing. Completely platonic and nothing inappropriate or out of the ordinary. I have been a gentleman. During my last session she offered an unadvertised service that she only reserves for trusted clients. It is a skin-to-skin session. She says it boosts oxytocin, like how newborns are placed on a parents bare skin to form a bond. I did not ask if it’s fully nude or just tops off. I was too polite to ask at the time. I am intrigued because we have had nothing but very professional sessions so far and there is a level of trust between us. I am comfortable with her and I don’t want that to change. I am also comfortable enough in my own skin and also comfortable with my decision making ability to not take it too far.
Is this a thing? Does this sort of thing happen often?
For the record, I did not find her on this site.
I have heard that skin to skin is a thing. I've also had potential cuddlers ask me for it. I cuddle as an enthusiast and it would be too intimate and I would be uncomfortable. Everyone is different.
@rbzona uh 😐 no. Skin to skin unless it’s for a baby , isn’t platonic, even though it does release feel good hormones.
I don’t mean to be flippant, but I don’t put on gloves before shaking hands. I imagine there is some level of skin to skin contact that is widely considered platonic. I’ve seen the term used occasionally on profiles, and I never considered it anything more than a reference to platonic touch. Of course the term can be used to hint at more, but that’s where it’s helpful to consider the motivations of the people with whom you interact. It’s good to ask the community. But even more helpful to ask your cuddler what she meant. Don’t get all worked up about it. Just ask in a calm respectful way. You’re better off knowing instead of wondering.
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