xandriarain

31 - Woman - Huntingdon Valley + South Brunswick Twp (US)
Fee: 175/hour - Can be: Host, Guest
Professional

About me

For the skimmers,
Please read the starred bullet points before contacting me
⭐️I host in South Brunswick, NJ & Huntingdon Valley, PA
⭐️ I can also come to you, but I much prefer it if you can come to me for the first session if possible
⭐️ I require a minimum of 24 hours' notice, but more is preferred
⭐️ I require a consultation call and a 50% deposit before your first session
⭐️ Sessions are two hours minimum & eight hours maximum
⭐️ My hours are 12 pm- 9 pm
⭐️For my safety and sanity, I will not be taking on any new clients in the MAGA cult. 🍊🤡🚫 (I have gotten permission from the admins, so don’t bother reporting me.) To be clear, regardless of your motives or intentions, if you voted for Trump for any reason, I do not want to work with you
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Section 1: The Basics (About Me, Credentials, Availability, Rates, Discounts, Code of Conduct)
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About Me:
Long before I made a career out of it, cuddling has been my happy place since early childhood. Whether it was family, friends, romantic partners, pets, and even stuffed animals, I would cuddle every chance I could get. I feel so fortunate to be able to share my passion with you.

Credentials :
-Bachelor of Science in Psychology from Penn State University-2018
-Cuddlist Legacy Training-2021
-Snuggle School Trained-2022
- Platonic Touch Academy- 2024
-Updated Cuddlist Certification- 2025

Availability as of 5/4
Monday 5/11:1-9pm Either Location
Tuesday 5/12: 12-9 pm Either Location
Wednesday 5/13: 12-9 pm Either Location
Thursday 5/14: 12-9 pm Either Location
Friday 5/15: 12-9 pm Either Location
Saturday 5/16: 12-5 pm either Location
Monday 5/18: 12-9 pm Either Location
Tuesday 5/19: 12-9 pm Either Location
Wednesday 5/20: 12-9 pm Either Location
Friday 5/22: 12-9 pm Either Location
For outcalls, please message me to check my availability.
* Want a date after this? Please message me for availability.

Rates
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30-minute Pre-Session Consultation= Free
2 hours= $350 (this is the minimum)
3 hours = $525
4 hours = $610
5 hours = $695
6 hours = $780
7 hours = $865
8 hours = $950 (this is the maximum)

* First-time clients are required to make a 50% deposit
*Travel costs are included except for parking fees
*Accepted Payment Methods: Emailed invoice via Square (must be paid ahead of time), Pay Pal, Venmo, Cash App, Apple Pay, and Cash.

Discounts:
-Bundles & memberships available to returning clients
-Book your next session before you leave and get 10% off

My Code Of Conduct:
1. I only see clients who are 18 or older
2. We both agree to be free of mind-altering substances and, therefore, fully able to give consent. (No drugs or alcohol)
3. We both agree to practice consent and pay attention to personal boundaries at all times
4. We will communicate what is mutually comfortable throughout the session
5. This is a strictly platonic service, and we both agree not to pursue or encourage sexual arousal.
• The minimum clothing is a tank top and shorts ( I do not take clothing requests)
•No hand-to-genital, breast, or buttocks contact or intentional genital stimulation of any kind
•No kissing on any part of the body
• No hands under clothing
• Nothing kink or fetish related
•No grinding/ dry humping
6. We both agree to have good hygiene for the session (this includes a recent shower, clean clothes, fresh breath, and deodorant)
7. Your confidentiality will be respected
8. Either party may end the session at any time

Section 2: Packages & Add ons
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Cuddle & Hiking Package! 🥾🏞️🫂
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Includes:
•90 Minutes of Cuddling
•30 minutes of Lunch In the Park (Lunch is on me)
•60 Minutes of Hiking
•Approximately 30-60 minutes of driving between places
•About 4 hours total
Cost: $360

Terms and Conditions:
•3 hours are allotted for all activities (cuddling, hiking, lunch), and up to an hour is allotted for driving
•Timing and order of activities are flexible as long as it is within the 3-hour timeframe.
•If it rains, we can substitute the hiking time with more cuddling or an alternative indoor activity like bowling, axe throwing, etc.
•If boundaries are violated, the session will end early with no refund.

*In light of recent discussions about non-cuddling services being allowed, I did check in with a moderator about this package offering and got the green light.
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Cuddles with the Cookie Wookie Woo! 🐶 🐾🦴
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Cookie is a giant furry potato that loves to cuddle. She has the face of a puppy, corgi's legs, and a potato's body. She grunts like a pig when receiving affection and is generally the cutest thing in the world. I can bring her to either office or your home. There will be a $40 additional fee to bring her to sessions up to four hours long. For sessions longer than four hours it will be an additional $10 for each hour beyond that (ex, a six hour session would be $60). This money will go towards cookie and her sisters vet, bills and care.
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Section 3: The Devil Is In the Details (Booking Process, Deposit Policy, Hosting Space, Transportation, Home Visits, Non-Discrimination Policy, FAQs)
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Booking process: 💻📲
1. In your first message, include your name, the location, date, time, and session length you would like to have.
2. Once we agree on a time and a place, I will send you a booking request.
3. After you have confirmed the booking request, we will exchange numbers and set up a video chat.
4. After the video chat, you will send me a 50% deposit for the total cost of the session to my Venmo, PayPal, Apple Pay, or Cash App.
*No appointment is official until we video chat. Do not book a hotel until we have video chatted.

Deposit Policy 💰
I require all new clients to leave a 50% deposit after our video chat consultation if we both decide we want to move forward and have a session. I accept Apple Pay, Cash App, Paypal, and Venmo. I can also send an invoice to your email via Square. These deposits are non-refundable. The deposit can be applied to a future session if the session is canceled with more than 48 hours notice. If the session is canceled with less than 48 hours notice, the deposit will be forfeited, and another deposit will need to be made if you want to reschedule. If you cancel with more than 48 hours notice and reschedule and end up canceling again, even if it is 48 hours or more in advance I will need another deposit if you would like to reschedule a third time. In the rare event that I have to cancel, your deposit will be refunded.

My Hosting Space 🛏
I host sessions in my two office locations (Huntingdon Valley, PA & South Brunswick, NJ). Each office has a comfortable queen-sized bed, lights that can be any color you would like, a galaxy ceiling projector, and an aromatherapy machine with a collection of essential oils for you to choose from. I have a Bluetooth speaker and TV in each office and offer complimentary snacks and beverages. I have Spotify, Netflix, Hulu, Paramount Plus, Max and Amazon Prime for entertainment. Hygiene is super important to me, so I put clean sheets on the bed for every session.

What to Expect in a session (a play by play):
1. After preemptively scheduling through cuddle comfort, we are going to do a consultation call beforehand to discuss your needs and goals and to ensure that cuddle therapy is a good fit for you.
2. For our first session we will start by sitting down and chatting to ensure that you feel comfortable and that you understand that you should speak up immediately if you feel uncomfortable at any point throughout the session. You are never obligated to cuddle and we can spend the entire session talking if you prefer.
3. Before we transition into cuddling I like to set up the ambiance of the room with colorful smart lights, relaxing music, a ceiling projector and aromatherapy via essential oil diffuser if you are open to it.
4. When you feel good and ready we can start to cuddle. I will encourage you to ask for what you want but am also happy to lead the way if you aren’t sure of what cuddle positions you want to try.
5. During the cuddle sessions I hold space for you and all emotions are welcomed. We can talk about whatever you would like to. However there is no need to talk the entire time. We can also cuddle in silence and relax or play something on tv if you prefer.
6. At the end of the session I will give a 10-15 minute warning so you have time to try any new cuddle positions cuddle positions you were eager to try or go back to one of your favorite cuddle positions from earlier in the session.
7. After the session I will follow up with you a few days later to see how you are feeling and to discuss the impact cuddle therapy had on you

Transportation 🚘🚆🚍
Both of my office locations are in the suburbs, and the best way to get to either of them is by car or ride-share service. If you do not own a car, I am willing to pick you up at a local train station or bus stop before the session and drop you off after. The closest train station to the Huntingdon Valley office is Somerton, and Princeton Junction is on my way to my South Brunswick office. I am willing to pick you up and drop you off at either of these aforementioned train stations free of charge, as they will take very little additional time for me. I am unfamiliar with the bus routes, but if you have a place you would like me to pick you up we can discuss it to see if it is close enough or if I would have to charge an extra fee or ask you to get a ride share service.

Home Visits 🏠
I can also come to your home or wherever you are staying if you cannot make it to my office.
I do not charge extra for this service, but I do require that it be 90 minutes or less from my starting point (Abington, PA 19001) and that the session is equal to or greater than my round-trip drive. I will ask you to cover any parking fees if I have to pay for them.

NYC:
I will not drive to any of the boroughs of NYC.

Non-Discrimination Policy: 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️⚧👨🏽🧑🏻‍🦲👵🏿🧓🏾👩🏼🧔🏽‍♀️🧕🏼🧟‍♂️🧛🏼‍♂️🧚🏻‍♀️🧞‍♂️🧜🏼🐶🐱🐹
I welcome you no matter who you are or what your background is as long as you are 18 or older and are willing to respect the container of platonic cuddling.
- there is no upper age limit
-LGBT Friendly
-All relationship statuses welcome (Single, Married, In a relationship, etc.)
- All ethnicities welcome
- all body types welcome
- all religions and cultures welcome
- all genders welcome
- disabled are welcome (but please inform me so I can accommodate)
-Neurodivergent folks are welcome
- I will cuddle with pets if you host but can't have pets in my office, unfortunately.

FAQ's 🙋‍♀️🙋‍♂️🙋🏼

Q: Do you host?
A: I host in my office in Huntingdon Valley, PA 19006 and in my South Brunswick, NJ office from 12 noon to 9pm seven days a week. Both of these locations are within driving distance from my home so I can be at either location on any day.

Q: Why do you have a two hour minimum
A: Short answer I find that this is the minimum time needed to get the full benefit of the experience and to be worth the time and preparation I put into each session. You can read the long answer here: https://www.cuddlecomfort.com/forum/discussion/20640/why-i-have-a-two-hour-minimum#latest

Q: How often do you wash the sheets in your office?
A: For each and every session, I put a clean set of sheets and blankets on the bed.

Q: Do you charge for travel?
A: My rates are all-inclusive, and there are no extra travel fees except for parking fees.

Q: Can you do a session today?
A: Not unless you booked with me yesterday or earlier. I need to know the night before at the very latest if we are going to have a session. I am not on call waiting around for somebody to book me last minute.

Q: Do you offer virtual sessions?
A: Not at this time

Q: What do you wear?
A: Soft, comfortable, cuddle attire (eg. leggings, sweatpants, t-shirts, tank tops). I do not take clothing requests unless it is due to a fabric allergy or sensory issue.

Q: What should I wear?
A: Please refer to cuddle comfort's client service agreement for what is and what is not appropriate. I suggest you wear comfortable clothing like pajamas, sweatpants, gym shorts, and a tank top or t-shirt. Underwear/ boxers are not a substitute for shorts and all pants/ shorts must not have an opening in the crotch area. If you come to my office I have t-shirts and shorts available in sizes small, medium, large, XL and XXL.

Q: Do you offer skin-to-skin or nude cuddling?
A: No, the minimum clothing allowed is shorts and a tank top, I generally wear leggings and a t-shirt and do not take clothing requests unless it is to avoid a fabric allergy or sensory issue. I will not take any clothing requests that involve wearing less fabric or more revealing outfits.

Q: What can I expect from our session?
A: I usually spend a little time talking and getting to know you during the first session before we start cuddling. We can talk, listen to music, cuddle in silence, or watch TV during the session.

Q: What happens if I get an erection during the session?
A: If you get an erection we will not act on it and we will ignore it. We will make sure to be in a position where I am not coming into contact with it and if necessary we can take a break.

Q: How far do you travel?
A: I will drive a maximum of 90 minutes each way or three hours round trip. The session length must be at least the length of the total travel time unless you plan to compensate for the extra time. Please note that I only travel to places that I can drive to, and I do not fly to other parts of the country or do overnights or multi-day sessions.

Q: Can you come to Manhattan, NYC?
A: I do not travel to any of the five boroughs of NYC.

Q: How long are your sessions?
A: My sessions are two hours minimum and eight hours maximum. I do not do overnight sessions or multi-day sessions.

Q: Where do we cuddle?
A: You can come to my office, I can come to your home, or you can get a hotel room. I ask that the hotel be clean, safe, and respectable, and not a cheap motel. I will not cuddle in cars, parks, or other public venues because these locations pose safety and privacy concerns and are not as enjoyable as cuddling in a bed or couch.

Q: I am unable to do a video chat or feel uncomfortable
A: While I strongly prefer a video call in the initial consult, I am willing to do a phone call instead of a video call.

Q: I am unable to make an electronic deposit
A: If the issue is having a paper trail of having a cuddle session, there are some discreet ways to make a deposit: https://www.cuddlecomfort.com/forum/discussion/15675/discreet-deposits/p1?new=1
However, if you don't want to make a deposit, I cannot work with you.

Q: Do you offer massage?
A: I am not licensed or trained in massage therapy. I can give you a brief massage over the clothes (e.g back shoulders, neck scalp, etc). However, massage will not be the main focus of our session.

Q: Do you do Reiki or other forms of energy work?
A: Not at this time

Q: Am I expected to tip?
A: My rates are all-inclusive. Tips are always appreciated, but they are never expected.

Rates & Services

1 Hour+
$175

Facts

Join Date July 2019
Cuddles Everyone
Can be Host, Guest
Preferred Days Sun, Mon, Tue, Wed, Thu, Fri, Sat
Preferred Times Afternoon, Evening, Night
Location: Huntingdon Valley, PA
Location #2: South Brunswick Twp, NJ
Height 5' 6"
Car Owner Yes
Pets Two dogs, one guinea pig, no pets in office
Drinks No
Smokes No
Ethnicity White

r•••••3


4 years ago

Wow! This was easily one of the best cuddle experiences I've had! Xandria is an absolute delight, she's super cuddly, a great conversationalist, and she showed me a bunch of awesome new cuddle positions. I will definitely be booking her again!

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4 years ago

Xandria is an awesome cuddler. She is a real pro and some things to expect…
1) she is clear on her rules, polite but firm, so there are no surprises
2) she has stuff with her like lighting and music you can use, she is ready to transform your space a little and it’s nice
3) she has lots of cuddle positions that are very nice and shows her preparedness and experience
4) she is just amazing at cuddling. She is a good conversationalist, she is a nice person, she is easy to talk to and she is a really good cuddler.

b•••••5


4 years ago

Xandria is able to effortlessly make a session feel comfortable and easygoing. She’s a great conversationalist and knows all sorts of good ways to cuddle. Time flies by with her and she’s great at what she does!

m•••••e


4 years ago

I had a GREAT cuddle appointment with Xandria. Xandria is super nice, personable, and she made me feel calm and at ease from the minute we meet. Her space is very clean, comfortable and cozy. The session itself was very nice. It was my first cuddle session and it was everything I expected and more. Xandria is very intuitive and a great conversationalist. She is also very tolerable as she politely put up with my lame jokes. :) I could go on all day but the bottom line is that Xandria is a true professional and I highly recommend her if you're looking for someone to schedule with. Thank you Xandria!

4rolandmack


4 years ago

Had my first cuddle session with Xandria. She is a wonderful person. Her space is comfortable and professional. The cuddle was exceptional and she is a great listener. Look forward to seeing her again - 5*****

A•••••y


4 years ago

Xandriarain was a wonderful person beauty inside and outside. Her place is very nice and comfortable. Her professionalism and cuddling positions were the best I have ever seen. It is highly recommended.

AriaCS


4 years ago

Xandria is a fantastic, kind and friendly woman. Her attitude is very relaxing and we had a really good conversation while Cuddling. She also puts a lot of effort into making her space as welcoming and peaceful as possible. She's fantastic ☺️.

RVM


4 years ago

This was my first time trying cuddling, and I was a little nervous. Immediately on speaking with Xandria, however, I felt the anxiety melt away. She is an amazing conversationalist, with interesting life experience. She is very knowledgeable about cuddling, and introduced me to cuddling positions I never thought of! The experience was so relaxing, I fell right asleep afterward. She is also a consumate professional, and made me aware of deals that she didn’t have to. I am definitely booking more sessions.

r•••••1


4 years ago

Great space!! Great cuddle!!! Great person!!!!!

M•••••4


4 years ago

This was my first cuddle experience, and I could not have asked for a better partner. She was really open, funny, and made the whole experience really comfortable.
Her office was easy to get to, and she made sure that it had a relaxing ambiance. She takes everything into account, from comfort, to the scent, to the mood lighting.
I had been having a stressful time at work and now feel a lot more relaxed. Thank you Xandria !

ezk10


4 years ago

Xandria was extremely kind, open, and professional. She made the entire session feel comfortable and relaxed without any judgments. Her office is like a perfectly optimized cuddle zone, you can tell how much thought and effort has gone into it.
I had no idea what to expect going in, but she made it the best experience I could have asked for. At the end of the day, I cannot say enough good things. I highly recommend Xandria to anyone considering! Thank you.

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4 years ago

The best session I have ever had !! she did put all her efforts to make the session best, from lights, songs, aroma in the room everything was perfect, also she made me relaxed both mentally and physically in many ways, her positive aura and optimistic view for the future is enough to pull me out from depressive state of mind and she tried all different cuddling positions to make me relaxed physically. I look forward to our next session, I Highly recommend her. Thank you Xandria🙏 !!

C•••••E


4 years ago

Xandria is amazing! I had a wonderful session with her this afternoon. She went above and beyond to make me feel comfortable. We had great conversation during our cuddle time. She took time to get to know me. Her office is very cozy, private, and promotes relaxation. She is very professional. I highly recommend her and I look forward to our next session.

anewwer


4 years ago

Xandria is a wonderful soul. She's so fun to talk and listen to. She put me to ease with her session and we had very interesting conversations. I am looking forward to more cuddles with her, would recommend anyday!

Ck12lucky


4 years ago

Had a great visit with Xandria over the weekend. She's very easy to talk with and definitely made it judgement free environment. Her office is very relaxing and private. Very professional. Highly recommended and looking forward to seeing again!

OSU_Cuddler


4 years ago

Xandria is an amazing cuddler. She has the ability to instantly make you comfortable. Her conversation kept the session enjoyable and made the connection feel even better. I would recommend her office if you are close enough it’s well thought out and versatile for different personalities and sessions. Being new to the community I would recommend her to anyone and look forward to future appointments.

jayphi


4 years ago
repeat client

xandria is an awesome cuddled. very open, friendly and great conversationalist. her space is warm and inviting. highly recommended

E•••••l


4 years ago

Xandria is one the best cuddlers I've ever encountered. She’s a very cool person to talk to and be around. You can’t go wrong with spending time with her.

a•••••s


4 years ago

I had such a delightful experience with Xandria yesterday. I'm still benefiting from the positive effects. She truly has a knack for putting people at ease with an open-minded attitude. Not once did I feel uncomfortable during the session. She is very down to earth, sweet, and considerate. I only wish I was closer to her office, but the trip to the hotel was well worth it. Anyone looking to book a pro for the first time; look no further.

C•••••t


4 years ago

Truly cannot say enough good things about Xandria, she is sincere, intelligent, warm, affectionate, caring, helpful and more. She made me feel comfortable, listened, and shared ideas and suggestions. The atmosphere at her office is inviting, tranquille, just perfect. Overall had a wonderful session, thank you and look forward to meeting again.

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