ray1974

51 - Man - 東京 (JP) + London (GB)

"I like to cuddle while listening to my cuddle buddy share their thoughts "

About me

The AI photo is aspirational (capturing about 70% of how I really look) but I guess not too far. ✨️😅 it keeps me on the right side of privacy, but should give you a fair idea.

A young 50+ in heart and body, I love engaging with everyone; to me everyone is an amazing treasure of experiences ❤️

Some have told me that they feel at peace, safe, and comfortable around me. I can't guarantee that this is how you will feel, but I hope you do.

I am masculine yet gentle and kind, outgoing in general, transparent, open, empathetic, respectful, polite, and confident. I love learning, gardening, hiking, swimming, and traveling.

My smile will always be just around the corner.

I look for a calm, thoughtful, curious woman. My cuddle buddies have been some of the loveliest people ever, and I'm very appreciative of the experiences.

I cuddle based on how it makes me feel, not by age.

I love to listen and, where possible, share my life experiences; my cuddle buddy has to gain from the session 😀

I don't add a photo to my cc profile simply as it is part of my privacy (but my profile photo does poetically represent me). I would happily share a photo or two with potential cuddle buddies. With that said, some elaborating on my personal characteristics is needed. I take care of myself and present myself smelling nicely, with impeccable personal hygiene, and fit for an engineer. As I have never drank alcohol, my body shows it.

From you, just be kind, and a photo is appreciated but not needed, as I value your personality ten times more.

Take care and hope we meet ❤️

One last thought...I may not be able to give you my heart in love, but I can certainly give you my heart with affection 💖

Facts

Join Date	April 2015
Orientation	Straight
Status
Cuddles	Women
Can be	Host, Guest, Public
Preferred Times	Morning, Afternoon, Evening, Night
Fav. Movie	Back to the Future and Hobit
Fav. TV Show	Black Adder, Yes Minister, TG
Location:	東京
Location #2:	London

Height	5' 10"
Body Type	Fit
Car Owner	Yes
Pets	2 🐈 and 2 cocateels and lots of plants 🪴
Drinks	No
Smokes	No
Job	Engineering Consultant

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Emsy

3 weeks ago

Ray is a true traditional gentleman.
He is kind, caring and ever so intelligent intellectually and emotionally. Goes without saying you will feel safe, warm and understood. We shared awesome 🐻🫂 (big comfy hugs)
💯% recommend a cuddle and conversation with this lovely wise 🦉 of a man. Truly blessed to meet him. 👋🏼

ray1974
3 weeks ago

A sweet, intelligent, and beautiful note, just like you ❤️

_Anna_

1 year ago

Ray was organized yet flexible when scheduling and took great care of making me feel comfortable during our cuddle sessions.

I was very happy to learn how many passions he had and that he shared a bit about them with me. That way we had a mix of interesting conversations and relaxing quite moments.

All the best for your goals Ray, it was nice to meet you 🫂

ray1974
1 year ago

Same here dear Anna, thank you for having an open heart and mind, being patient and understanding, and being an overall lovely person 🫂

Its_Sophie

1 year ago

We seemed to have clicked immediately even before meeting just by our appreciation of how we organise things 😆 During our session, we shared our stories with each other and also enjoyed quiet moments together.

I felt comfortable all the way and I truly appreciate him being a true gentleman all throughout especially when we have discussed the risks that some of the cuddle therapists have to deal with.

Will always be delighted to welcome him back to Singapore!

ray1974
1 year ago

You are a special person Sophie!

Kind and empathetic, a true safe space. As you said lots of comfort and compatibility immediately.

You are the kind of person anyone would love to be around always...I particularly loved our meeting of minds.

Take care.

Claracuddles

2 years ago

What a fabulous human being. Brilliant client, excellent communication and extremely easy to get on with. Honoured to be part of your journey in this world. 🌍💖 Til we meet again ☺️

ray1974
2 years ago

If caring was a sea, you would fill it. Stay pure, stay strong.

c•••••i

2 years ago

an amazing cuddler! The time went so quickly with you and i enjoyed every moment of it. I felt completely relaxed throughout. You’re great at making conversation- we had some serious talks, some laughs, and comfortable silence.

You are a really interesting person.

I hope we can reconnect sooner rather than later :)

ray1974
2 years ago

And you are an amazing human being, caring, considerate, smart, and thoughtful.
Stay firm and focused on your noble objectives, and never let go of your beautiful values. In the years to come, I will follow your successes with happiness for you and encouragement.

deleted cuddler

3 years ago

It was a wonderful meeting 🤗Ray is a very gentle, kind and caring man. Our hugging session was held in a warm and relaxed atmosphere. I felt like I had known this man for many years. I am very glad that we spent time together and hope to meet again. Take care❤️

ray1974
3 years ago

Dear Nadiia, you are a fascinating, delightful, lovely woman inside and out. The pleasure of being with you was very sweet and special ❤️

v•••••3

3 years ago

Ray is one of a kind! The most beautiful soul I have ever met, I wish to be just like him one day, so set it in ways❤️ I felt so safe and my heart felt so warm during the whole session, I had the best time ever and it went too quickly! I highly recommend a cuddle and a chat with Ray, I wish you nothing but the best and blessings and blessings ❤️❤️❤️

ray1974
3 years ago

🥰 Cuddlers in general are a kind and empathetic people, and I've been privileged in sharing sessions with some of the kindest, most considerate women imaginable 💐
They have helped me heal, collecting my emotional tears, safeguarding me and cherishing the fleeting moments that are always bound to end. Thank you all!
To you specifically, the journey has just begun, stay strong, stay true, and you shall reach the shore of safety where there is no sorrows or pain or fear.
Take care ❤

LittleSpoon8

3 years ago

Ray is a lovely person to cuddle with. He is a real gentleman, caring and respectful. I felt safe and during the session and enjoyed our conversations.

ray1974
3 years ago

You are a kind sole, rich in giving and caring, to you, I send my deep appreciation and respect 💐
Your bravery has inspired me in ways unique and I couldn't imagine, so thank you for everything ❤

L•••••m

3 years ago

Ray is a very grounding soul, considerate as ever. Very blissful session 🥰🦋

ray1974
3 years ago

You showed me a unique and exceptional view of the world, with frankness and honesty, changing how I see things, with clarity and a higher appreciation ❤

C•••••e

4 years ago

Ray is a such a thoughtful, respectful and open person - thank you for your awesome cuddles and such a peaceful and genuine experience 🤗

ray1974
3 years ago

You are the bedrock of friendship and care I needed, holding my hand with baby steps and boundless empathy. To you, I owe lots, and can give back little, and for that, I will be forever grateful 💐

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