xandriarain

31 - Woman - Huntingdon Valley + South Brunswick Twp (US)
Fee: 175/hour - Can be: Host, Guest
Professional

About me

For the skimmers,
Please read the starred bullet points before contacting me
⭐️I host in South Brunswick, NJ & Huntingdon Valley, PA
⭐️ I can also come to you, but I much prefer it if you can come to me for the first session if possible
⭐️ I require a minimum of 24 hours' notice, but more is preferred
⭐️ I require a consultation call and a 50% deposit before your first session
⭐️ Sessions are two hours minimum & eight hours maximum
⭐️ My hours are 12 pm- 9 pm
⭐️For my safety and sanity, I will not be taking on any new clients in the MAGA cult. 🍊🤡🚫 (I have gotten permission from the admins, so don’t bother reporting me.) To be clear, regardless of your motives or intentions, if you voted for Trump for any reason, I do not want to work with you
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Section 1: The Basics (About Me, Credentials, Availability, Rates, Discounts, Code of Conduct)
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About Me:
Long before I made a career out of it, cuddling has been my happy place since early childhood. Whether it was family, friends, romantic partners, pets, and even stuffed animals, I would cuddle every chance I could get. I feel so fortunate to be able to share my passion with you.

Credentials :
-Bachelor of Science in Psychology from Penn State University-2018
-Cuddlist Legacy Training-2021
-Snuggle School Trained-2022
- Platonic Touch Academy- 2024
-Updated Cuddlist Certification- 2025

Availability as of 5/4
Monday 5/11:1-9pm Either Location
Tuesday 5/12: 12-9 pm Either Location
Wednesday 5/13: 12-9 pm Either Location
Thursday 5/14: 12-9 pm Either Location
Friday 5/15: 12-9 pm Either Location
Saturday 5/16: 12-5 pm either Location
Monday 5/18: 12-9 pm Either Location
Tuesday 5/19: 12-9 pm Either Location
Wednesday 5/20: 12-9 pm Either Location
Friday 5/22: 12-9 pm Either Location
For outcalls, please message me to check my availability.
* Want a date after this? Please message me for availability.

Rates
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30-minute Pre-Session Consultation= Free
2 hours= $350 (this is the minimum)
3 hours = $525
4 hours = $610
5 hours = $695
6 hours = $780
7 hours = $865
8 hours = $950 (this is the maximum)

* First-time clients are required to make a 50% deposit
*Travel costs are included except for parking fees
*Accepted Payment Methods: Emailed invoice via Square (must be paid ahead of time), Pay Pal, Venmo, Cash App, Apple Pay, and Cash.

Discounts:
-Bundles & memberships available to returning clients
-Book your next session before you leave and get 10% off

My Code Of Conduct:
1. I only see clients who are 18 or older
2. We both agree to be free of mind-altering substances and, therefore, fully able to give consent. (No drugs or alcohol)
3. We both agree to practice consent and pay attention to personal boundaries at all times
4. We will communicate what is mutually comfortable throughout the session
5. This is a strictly platonic service, and we both agree not to pursue or encourage sexual arousal.
• The minimum clothing is a tank top and shorts ( I do not take clothing requests)
•No hand-to-genital, breast, or buttocks contact or intentional genital stimulation of any kind
•No kissing on any part of the body
• No hands under clothing
• Nothing kink or fetish related
•No grinding/ dry humping
6. We both agree to have good hygiene for the session (this includes a recent shower, clean clothes, fresh breath, and deodorant)
7. Your confidentiality will be respected
8. Either party may end the session at any time

Section 2: Packages & Add ons
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Cuddle & Hiking Package! 🥾🏞️🫂
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Includes:
•90 Minutes of Cuddling
•30 minutes of Lunch In the Park (Lunch is on me)
•60 Minutes of Hiking
•Approximately 30-60 minutes of driving between places
•About 4 hours total
Cost: $360

Terms and Conditions:
•3 hours are allotted for all activities (cuddling, hiking, lunch), and up to an hour is allotted for driving
•Timing and order of activities are flexible as long as it is within the 3-hour timeframe.
•If it rains, we can substitute the hiking time with more cuddling or an alternative indoor activity like bowling, axe throwing, etc.
•If boundaries are violated, the session will end early with no refund.

*In light of recent discussions about non-cuddling services being allowed, I did check in with a moderator about this package offering and got the green light.
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Cuddles with the Cookie Wookie Woo! 🐶 🐾🦴
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Cookie is a giant furry potato that loves to cuddle. She has the face of a puppy, corgi's legs, and a potato's body. She grunts like a pig when receiving affection and is generally the cutest thing in the world. I can bring her to either office or your home. There will be a $40 additional fee to bring her to sessions up to four hours long. For sessions longer than four hours it will be an additional $10 for each hour beyond that (ex, a six hour session would be $60). This money will go towards cookie and her sisters vet, bills and care.
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Section 3: The Devil Is In the Details (Booking Process, Deposit Policy, Hosting Space, Transportation, Home Visits, Non-Discrimination Policy, FAQs)
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Booking process: 💻📲
1. In your first message, include your name, the location, date, time, and session length you would like to have.
2. Once we agree on a time and a place, I will send you a booking request.
3. After you have confirmed the booking request, we will exchange numbers and set up a video chat.
4. After the video chat, you will send me a 50% deposit for the total cost of the session to my Venmo, PayPal, Apple Pay, or Cash App.
*No appointment is official until we video chat. Do not book a hotel until we have video chatted.

Deposit Policy 💰
I require all new clients to leave a 50% deposit after our video chat consultation if we both decide we want to move forward and have a session. I accept Apple Pay, Cash App, Paypal, and Venmo. I can also send an invoice to your email via Square. These deposits are non-refundable. The deposit can be applied to a future session if the session is canceled with more than 48 hours notice. If the session is canceled with less than 48 hours notice, the deposit will be forfeited, and another deposit will need to be made if you want to reschedule. If you cancel with more than 48 hours notice and reschedule and end up canceling again, even if it is 48 hours or more in advance I will need another deposit if you would like to reschedule a third time. In the rare event that I have to cancel, your deposit will be refunded.

My Hosting Space 🛏
I host sessions in my two office locations (Huntingdon Valley, PA & South Brunswick, NJ). Each office has a comfortable queen-sized bed, lights that can be any color you would like, a galaxy ceiling projector, and an aromatherapy machine with a collection of essential oils for you to choose from. I have a Bluetooth speaker and TV in each office and offer complimentary snacks and beverages. I have Spotify, Netflix, Hulu, Paramount Plus, Max and Amazon Prime for entertainment. Hygiene is super important to me, so I put clean sheets on the bed for every session.

What to Expect in a session (a play by play):
1. After preemptively scheduling through cuddle comfort, we are going to do a consultation call beforehand to discuss your needs and goals and to ensure that cuddle therapy is a good fit for you.
2. For our first session we will start by sitting down and chatting to ensure that you feel comfortable and that you understand that you should speak up immediately if you feel uncomfortable at any point throughout the session. You are never obligated to cuddle and we can spend the entire session talking if you prefer.
3. Before we transition into cuddling I like to set up the ambiance of the room with colorful smart lights, relaxing music, a ceiling projector and aromatherapy via essential oil diffuser if you are open to it.
4. When you feel good and ready we can start to cuddle. I will encourage you to ask for what you want but am also happy to lead the way if you aren’t sure of what cuddle positions you want to try.
5. During the cuddle sessions I hold space for you and all emotions are welcomed. We can talk about whatever you would like to. However there is no need to talk the entire time. We can also cuddle in silence and relax or play something on tv if you prefer.
6. At the end of the session I will give a 10-15 minute warning so you have time to try any new cuddle positions cuddle positions you were eager to try or go back to one of your favorite cuddle positions from earlier in the session.
7. After the session I will follow up with you a few days later to see how you are feeling and to discuss the impact cuddle therapy had on you

Transportation 🚘🚆🚍
Both of my office locations are in the suburbs, and the best way to get to either of them is by car or ride-share service. If you do not own a car, I am willing to pick you up at a local train station or bus stop before the session and drop you off after. The closest train station to the Huntingdon Valley office is Somerton, and Princeton Junction is on my way to my South Brunswick office. I am willing to pick you up and drop you off at either of these aforementioned train stations free of charge, as they will take very little additional time for me. I am unfamiliar with the bus routes, but if you have a place you would like me to pick you up we can discuss it to see if it is close enough or if I would have to charge an extra fee or ask you to get a ride share service.

Home Visits 🏠
I can also come to your home or wherever you are staying if you cannot make it to my office.
I do not charge extra for this service, but I do require that it be 90 minutes or less from my starting point (Abington, PA 19001) and that the session is equal to or greater than my round-trip drive. I will ask you to cover any parking fees if I have to pay for them.

NYC:
I will not drive to any of the boroughs of NYC.

Non-Discrimination Policy: 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️⚧👨🏽🧑🏻‍🦲👵🏿🧓🏾👩🏼🧔🏽‍♀️🧕🏼🧟‍♂️🧛🏼‍♂️🧚🏻‍♀️🧞‍♂️🧜🏼🐶🐱🐹
I welcome you no matter who you are or what your background is as long as you are 18 or older and are willing to respect the container of platonic cuddling.
- there is no upper age limit
-LGBT Friendly
-All relationship statuses welcome (Single, Married, In a relationship, etc.)
- All ethnicities welcome
- all body types welcome
- all religions and cultures welcome
- all genders welcome
- disabled are welcome (but please inform me so I can accommodate)
-Neurodivergent folks are welcome
- I will cuddle with pets if you host but can't have pets in my office, unfortunately.

FAQ's 🙋‍♀️🙋‍♂️🙋🏼

Q: Do you host?
A: I host in my office in Huntingdon Valley, PA 19006 and in my South Brunswick, NJ office from 12 noon to 9pm seven days a week. Both of these locations are within driving distance from my home so I can be at either location on any day.

Q: Why do you have a two hour minimum
A: Short answer I find that this is the minimum time needed to get the full benefit of the experience and to be worth the time and preparation I put into each session. You can read the long answer here: https://www.cuddlecomfort.com/forum/discussion/20640/why-i-have-a-two-hour-minimum#latest

Q: How often do you wash the sheets in your office?
A: For each and every session, I put a clean set of sheets and blankets on the bed.

Q: Do you charge for travel?
A: My rates are all-inclusive, and there are no extra travel fees except for parking fees.

Q: Can you do a session today?
A: Not unless you booked with me yesterday or earlier. I need to know the night before at the very latest if we are going to have a session. I am not on call waiting around for somebody to book me last minute.

Q: Do you offer virtual sessions?
A: Not at this time

Q: What do you wear?
A: Soft, comfortable, cuddle attire (eg. leggings, sweatpants, t-shirts, tank tops). I do not take clothing requests unless it is due to a fabric allergy or sensory issue.

Q: What should I wear?
A: Please refer to cuddle comfort's client service agreement for what is and what is not appropriate. I suggest you wear comfortable clothing like pajamas, sweatpants, gym shorts, and a tank top or t-shirt. Underwear/ boxers are not a substitute for shorts and all pants/ shorts must not have an opening in the crotch area. If you come to my office I have t-shirts and shorts available in sizes small, medium, large, XL and XXL.

Q: Do you offer skin-to-skin or nude cuddling?
A: No, the minimum clothing allowed is shorts and a tank top, I generally wear leggings and a t-shirt and do not take clothing requests unless it is to avoid a fabric allergy or sensory issue. I will not take any clothing requests that involve wearing less fabric or more revealing outfits.

Q: What can I expect from our session?
A: I usually spend a little time talking and getting to know you during the first session before we start cuddling. We can talk, listen to music, cuddle in silence, or watch TV during the session.

Q: What happens if I get an erection during the session?
A: If you get an erection we will not act on it and we will ignore it. We will make sure to be in a position where I am not coming into contact with it and if necessary we can take a break.

Q: How far do you travel?
A: I will drive a maximum of 90 minutes each way or three hours round trip. The session length must be at least the length of the total travel time unless you plan to compensate for the extra time. Please note that I only travel to places that I can drive to, and I do not fly to other parts of the country or do overnights or multi-day sessions.

Q: Can you come to Manhattan, NYC?
A: I do not travel to any of the five boroughs of NYC.

Q: How long are your sessions?
A: My sessions are two hours minimum and eight hours maximum. I do not do overnight sessions or multi-day sessions.

Q: Where do we cuddle?
A: You can come to my office, I can come to your home, or you can get a hotel room. I ask that the hotel be clean, safe, and respectable, and not a cheap motel. I will not cuddle in cars, parks, or other public venues because these locations pose safety and privacy concerns and are not as enjoyable as cuddling in a bed or couch.

Q: I am unable to do a video chat or feel uncomfortable
A: While I strongly prefer a video call in the initial consult, I am willing to do a phone call instead of a video call.

Q: I am unable to make an electronic deposit
A: If the issue is having a paper trail of having a cuddle session, there are some discreet ways to make a deposit: https://www.cuddlecomfort.com/forum/discussion/15675/discreet-deposits/p1?new=1
However, if you don't want to make a deposit, I cannot work with you.

Q: Do you offer massage?
A: I am not licensed or trained in massage therapy. I can give you a brief massage over the clothes (e.g back shoulders, neck scalp, etc). However, massage will not be the main focus of our session.

Q: Do you do Reiki or other forms of energy work?
A: Not at this time

Q: Am I expected to tip?
A: My rates are all-inclusive. Tips are always appreciated, but they are never expected.

Rates & Services

1 Hour+
$175

Facts

Join Date July 2019
Cuddles Everyone
Can be Host, Guest
Preferred Days Sun, Mon, Tue, Wed, Thu, Fri, Sat
Preferred Times Afternoon, Evening, Night
Location: Huntingdon Valley, PA
Location #2: South Brunswick Twp, NJ
Height 5' 6"
Car Owner Yes
Pets Two dogs, one guinea pig, no pets in office
Drinks No
Smokes No
Ethnicity White
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5 years ago

Xandria and I had an amazing time last week. She is one of the best cuddlers I have had. I highly recommend her.

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5 years ago

Awesome cuddler.

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5 years ago

Had a very nice session, thankfully she like animals, my Golden can be very needy and X was ok him....

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5 years ago

We had a great virtual session. Xandria is very attentive, friendly and a great listener. I've made another friend whom I can talk to without judgement, which is quite relaxing during this time. I'll definitely meet her for in-person session after the pandemic. Thank you for such a wonderful session, Xandria!

happycuddler20


5 years ago

This was my first ever cuddling session and first time using this site. I had an amazing time cuddling with Xandria. She is a wonderful cuddler and has a very friendly spirit. I felt very comfortable and relaxed with her. I highly recommend her.

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6 years ago

What a delight! We had a great virtual session and our conversation flowed perfectly. It's nice being able to converse with a stranger you just met and feel like you've known each other for years! As always, treat people well and with respect, she totally deserves it! Stay healthy during all this and thank you for your time!

s•••••y


6 years ago

Beautiful person and a comforting soul

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6 years ago

Just completed virtual session with Xandriarain. Exactly what I needed. She is just a really nice person to end a day with. Will repeat.

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6 years ago

We had a video call. She is very genuine, warm and friendly. After talking to her, my day was a lot better...thank you

honestBoy


6 years ago

Xandriarain is one of the nicest cuddlers I’ve ever met! Very cool and straightforward, i don’t think the session could have went any better. Super sweet cuddler made me feel very relaxed through out the session, which is amazing for my anxiety. She is very respectful with boundaries, always asked before moving her hands, if there would be a 100 star than she definitely deserves that, she makes me so comfortable and time flies by so fast, awesome person who i hope i get to cuddle again soon! 👍

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6 years ago

Xandria has a truly amazing personality, gentle, genuine, warm, friendly, and above all a humble person who can be your buddy instantly - the best in her creates the positive vibe that lasts thru the session and beyond.

samsam52


6 years ago

I had an amazing time with Xandria, she is a great listener and an excellent communicator. Above all the best cuddler!

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6 years ago

Had a great experience with Xandria, she's empathetic, genuine, smart, mature, and easy to talk to. It was my first time cuddling and I was really nervous at first. But I ended up enjoying our time together more deeply than I imagined and will be booking again. Definitely recommend!

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6 years ago

I had a better time than I could have imagined, and I felt totally safe. A true cuddle buddy.

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6 years ago

Xandria is a thorough cuddle professional - empathetic, caring and an excellent communicator. Highly recommend!

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6 years ago

I had a chance to cuddle with Xandria last week. This being my first session, I didn’t know what to expect. But she made me comfortable right from the get go and I didn’t realize the passage of time. I would luv to cuddle with her when I get a chance.

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6 years ago

I had the opportunity to cuddle with Xandriarain last week and I had an awesome experience..., a great cuddler.
She is matured and well rounded, smart, sweet, kind, caring and she really has this way of making you feel comfortable the entire time. I look forward to seeing her again.

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6 years ago

I had an awesome time with Xandria, she was so sweet and it was really easy to talk to her. I can't wait to see her again!

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6 years ago


I had a great time with her yesterday . She is really easy to talk and put immediately at ease. I look forward to seeing her again.


S•••••y


6 years ago

My first experience on this site was with Xandria. She made it easy to schedule time with her and let me know what to expect. She is a great conversationalist and cuddler. I plan to see her again and take advantage of her multiple hour rates! Thank you for such a relaxing experience.

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