About me
My cuddle sessions ease into the touch experience, beginning with a conversation about boundaries and transitioning into a short guided meditation.
I have a large cuddle space available in my home. It is temperature controlled and cozy. I include an optional 10-minute phone call if you have questions about cuddling.
My sessions stay within the guidelines listed on this site.
I'm most interested in clients who are new to cuddling, working through fear of themselves or others, processing touch-related traumas, identify as LGBTQIA+, or are entering a new phase of their lives after grief.
A little bit about me: I am co-initiator of Space Mermaids, a certified cuddler, postpartum doula, and author of four books. I have practiced energy work, acupressure, acroyoga, and Aikido, which all culminate in my cuddle practice. I practice play, experience, and sensation in all areas of my life.
My favorite cuddle sessions feel like a mild workout and involve holding, squeezing, rolling around, and pressure point exploration. If you want to do some beginning-level acroyoga, I would be delighted to incorporate that into the session!
Message me to book a session or read the FAQ below for more info.
FAQ:
What Is Cuddling?
Cuddling is a platonic touch experiment with two or more people where we navigate boundaries and listen to what keeps the other person comfortable. While clothed, we experience skin-on-skin contact to increase oxytocin in the body, which regulates the stress hormone cortisol and promotes overall well-being. I like to think of it as a very interactive massage. Instead of one person being the practitioner while the other receives, both parties are invited to explore the landscape of the body.
Keep in mind that every cuddler's approach is going to be different! I recommend trying out many cuddlers so you experience intimacy with all types of people.
How Does a Typical Cuddle Session Go?
When you come to my community house in SW Portland, take off your shoes and make yourself comfortable in the private lounge space set up just for you. We'll check in with our bodies and and boundaries together, knowing that every day and experience brings changes to comfort levels.
After that, I'll give you time to change into your pajamas or gym shorts before we enter into some gentle breathing exercises that invite curiosity about your own body. If touch is comfortable at this point, we might hug or hold hands. If not, we can go at the pace comfortable for you.
Once you orient yourself to the space, I let my intuition guide the session, listening for what your body needs and wants while staying open to requests for touch.
I am a very engaged and active cuddler, caressing your hair while you hold the small of my back, for instance, or curling my leg around yours while moving it gently up and down. These slow, methodical movements enhance sensitivity and sensation, leaving you with a platonic warmth of intimacy.
What Happens if I Become Aroused?
Arousal is a totally natural response. There’s nothing wrong with being aroused unless you act on it. My philosophy is to treat all parts of the body platonically, but if I need to, I will keep an arm, leg, or hip in the way. And, if you begin to experience discomfort because of your arousal, we can change positions or I can leave for a few minutes during the session to give you time to reset.
Should I Shower Before the Session?
I prefer that you shower day of, and please don’t wear cologne or perfume as I am sensitive to fragrances.
But, Since I’m Paying You, Is the Intimacy Fake?
You pay me for my time, access to my most vulnerable state, setting up the space, and making sure I am in the right headspace to make you the center of my world for a few hours. What happens inside the cuddle session itself is exactly how I want to interact with you in that moment. It is present and authentic and thrumming with life. You can trust that I will deny any touch requests that cause me discomfort.
Do You Do Outcalls?
I am open to negotiating outcall cuddling sessions but require that you send pictures of the space beforehand or book a hotel. Depending on how far you are from me, there may be travel costs associated.
Should I Tip You?
Gratuity is optional, but if you had a good time, tips are always appreciated.
What Do You Wear during Sessions?
I wear a tank top with some Thai harem pants (thin cotton genie pants) that give me both comfort and mobility.
Can You Meet with Me Today?
I do not accommodate same-day requests.
Are You Interested in Role-playing during a Cuddle Session?
Yes. Very.
To set up a role-playing situation with you, I will need to know what type of activity you want to do (cuddling, going for a walk, going on a date, going out to dinner, etc.) and what type of tone you would be interested in (nurturing, tough love, friendly, cold, etc.). If you want me to pretend to be a specific person or act inside a specific context, please let me know.
How Often Can I Text You Once We Exchange Contact Info?
Other than questions specifically about the session or logistical concerns, it is better than we keep chatting to the cuddle session, but I will text you after the session to check in on you.
Message me for more questions!