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I was wondering the same thing.
Yes but I hear that for UK and other parts of the world it is not as active at all
@night_songs Can I take a guess that you have been sending messages to female enthusiasts and not hearing anything back?
On my end, it seems like it’s somewhat okay. I feel the site was much better when I first joined. It seems like there isn’t a whole lot of people in my area but I tend to come and go every few months on this site. When I do receive a message it’s usually just spam. I wasn’t on for a few months when I received my last message from someone in my area, which I wish I saw sooner to see where it could have went, but she doesn’t appear to have login since she last messaged me. I do see that there has been people viewing my profile, but they are all out of state from me.
Seems like it depends on location. Smaller towns won't have as many. A lot of people don't even know this site exists too.
Depends on the location and how big the size of the town. A lot of enthusiast that I’ve talked to are very safety conscious because of past actions by people pushing boundaries. Professionals are more active but occasionally I’ve come across ones that don’t reply either. That’s for America. Not sure how it is anywhere else. I know there’s a couple active people in Canada yet I have no idea where or how active, lol.
Also helps to have a photo on your profile and a profile description. Women tend not to respond if you're a cipher.
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I'm chatting with lot of people but engagement is pretty low irl
@ReltvlyCanshes You beat me to it ...
Yes, some areas more than others.
@GuyverGordon ah ha
Yes, but it varies a lot by location. In London there are a fair number of good cuddle professionals (and several cuddle workshops) but enthusiast women are few and far between. To get something worthwhile out of this place, you need to put some thoughtful effort in.
I am currently recovering from a major operation. So far two people that I met on this site have come to visit me, another member who I met elsewhere came yesterday and another is coming over the weekend. My point is that there are real, caring people here. And yes, I am in London too.
A blank profile is essentially guaranteed to ensure no response from enthusiast women: the only exception is if your opening message is so engaging that they don't even need to look at your profile before responding.
You may find these threads helpful:-
Understanding Boundaries & Etiquette
How to Create a Great Profile
I'm a non-pro woman on this site, and here's what I look for in a first message.
How I found happiness on Cuddle Comfort (man seeking enthusiast women)
How I Found Happiness on CC Part 2: The First Meeting
It is easier to believe
How To Choose Your Professional Cuddler
The Perfect Opening Message (to a professional)
Ten Things Your Professional Cuddler Wants You to Know
How to Save Money on Professional Cuddling
@TxTom 🤣
Nope
The forum is part of “the site” and is quite active but I doubt that’s what you mean. For actual cuddling in person, depends on who you choose to contact.
I thought this was a number 1.
Perhaps once WriterGF has completed the number assignments, his thread will be stickied for ease of reference.
I love the numbers idea really but would need to have the patience to find the thread and then find the appropriate number. I think Sticky-ing it is a great idea.
Sure is, im sweatin to the oldies here
@night_songs Can I take a guess that you have been sending messages to female enthusiasts and not hearing anything back
👍👍👍👍 @WriterGF
@CuddleDuncan Thank you! 😃 That was wayyy more help than I was expecting.
Btw in my first post, I was talking about the forums and the site as a whole. This site was recommended to me in person by a friend who says she makes $80 an hour as a professional cuddler. Maybe she thought I would give up and look for a paid session when I found out the site is a ghost town 😂
I’m new to this site but not new to being a cuddler. The disappointment for me on this site is many want more than just a professional cuddler, and that is just not my thing. I’m also getting a lot of requests for virtual’s but my intellect and my Batman signal radar lol is saying they want more as well. It feels like it’s become more of a can. I find some type of sexual cuddle as opposed to what it should be.
Name calling is against stated forum rules. -JoyfulHeart [Moderator]
@TxTom This dude just called you a weirdo.
Pros and weirdos are gettin' down. We ain't stuck in no ghost town.
Time and time again I hear about professional cuddlers having to deal with men who push boundaries, who start a cuddling session but then demand sexual services or move in for non-consensual touching. The worst thing about it is when they sudden begin to act rejected, as though it was something they were entitled to which was taken away from them.... it all sounds like a lot of stress and worry to get into.
I can see why there may be men on this particular site who do not want to hear this, but I didn't think they would be as childish as to delete my post. It says a lot about this community.
@Sooson @TxTom I did not mention either of you by name. But if you've ever behaved this way towards a women, believe me I have far more to say to you...
@night_songs you are correct. But you've also not been around long enough to grasp all that's gone on on this site. Respectfully. There are many men active in the forums no matter how you perceive their comments that don't fall into the buckets you are assigning. It takes time to undo they speak with in this community. You also probably have not grasped all the intricacies of the community, it's a little more complex than the loudest voices.