@TxTom 🤭 Yup!!
@Emoyeni_Clouds Fo' sho', people are crazy and @CharlieBear is a rockstar!
@NickWk Good, ya filthy animal! 🤣
~ Sunset Snuggles
🦄 Enthusiast 🏞 Travel Fiend 🐘 Animal Lover
"Be at war with your vices, at peace with your neighbors, and let every new year find you a better man." ~ Benjamin Franklin
Read on someones profile:
"Piles of people sleeping over on Tuesday nights in cuddles on a weekly basis."
Surely they have the, "how to cuddle" down. Its a bit much for me I think whos having difficulty finding even one person who can cuddle in a way thats to my liking, but apparently its a thing.
Someday I will tell someone on these boards, "I'mma let you finish, but @bugsz was the greatest CuddleComfort troll of all time. Of all time."
Well damn. English is my 5th language. In my other 4 well spoken languages cuddle is spelled knuffel, coccola, kose, manga..... So that's what I've been doing drinking coke watching manga getting cozy and playing knuffel.. Go figure
@NickWk
I updated my profile pic to remove full frontal bare bear.
And we all thank you for that.
@WestsideMarc Great advice! I esp like the first one....the vibes are very; "There's something about Mary" 😏
@TxTom and @BoomerSpooner Now we need more verses of the cuddle pokey/cuddle snuggle song 🤗😎
@RedFox16
Oops.
Well, I would have completely composed something entirely different had I read a little further back into the thread's history.
@Mike403 @TxTom On that earlier subject... 🤣
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Reported and reviewed. Removing image. [CharlieBear]
😄 Whoever flagged my spider meme better go flag the original where I found it, yo!
https://www.cuddlecomfort.com/forum/discussion/comment/267300/#Comment_267300
@SunsetSnuggles - I thought it was funny.. but you know how some people here feel about posts that may hint at anything non-platonic.
@Mike403 For sure. I'm not offended by whoever flagged it, just bemused. 🕷 The spider one was a clear joke, whereas earlier ones were in earnest.
Oh geez, that meme was from me. Whoever flagged it, I implore you to get a life
Waaaaaaay too many flags being thrown around here. This site is for adults, correct?
Wait, they flagged that meme, but somehow the way these guys talked about “cuddling” in 2013 on the first page is ok?
@SunsetSnuggles welcome to the club! I swear people be watching my every move Waiting to see what I post It’s like I’m a celebrity!
I think a recently banned individual might be a little perturbed.
I have a concern because I’m new here- a concern of safety… as a female, obviously there is a concern about my personal safety going to a strangers house- what are your thoughts, tips, suggestions, for me to feel comfortable? Thank you
lol Here we go again.
@JennaLynne There are tons of posts about this subject. Be prepared to vet, vet, vet like crazy. Trust your intuition. And GTFO of any situation that gets sketchy. There are a lot of predators here, as there is in any space with access to vulnerable people. But there are also lots of really cool peeps here. It's sorting them that can be a challenge at first. Read lots of forums and chat with other pros on how they created their boundaries before meeting anyone in person.
I'm new to cuddle comfort I want you to hold hands and sit close so that I can feel my color partners body heat and so that my serotonin novel will rise in my health will be better
I’m new on here and I need help figuring out a guideline on my terms. Do I write it on my bio? Do I remind them too and ask if they agree to terms? If any pros with experience can help me that would be great 🥹 and if anyone can read my bio and critique it, thanks 😭
hello. i am a professional cuddle and im always getting someone who wants to have non-platonic services with me and I try to tell them that that is not what the website is intended for. but, they tell me that i will never be able to find clients to cuddle with if i do not go the extra mile. its really hard being a female professional cuddler. i have been pu in dangerous situations where men will try and take advantage of me mid cuddle even though that was not what i asked for. PLEASSSE follow the rules of this service so it can be a safe space for new professionals.
@Shoripie Sorry you are going through this. I hope you are reporting these people so they get banned.
I think other than communication it's also being receptive attentive and present. And most importantly trust.
Be respectful, be selfless, and don't be a creepy weirdo
This is a crazy conversation. Of course people get aroused when cuddling, it's an involuntary reaction that comes from being in close personal contact with someone. For men it is obvious, but just move your hips away or don't try to grind it on the other person. It will go away after a couple of minutes. For women, I'm sure they feel it too sometimes, but it isn't as obvious. If someone gives a moan or makes a noise, that's an indication that the cuddle feels good. A moment of ecstacy doesn't have to mean sex, it can be emotional too.
I've had a request for a "virtual cuddle" . Does anyone know how that works? Are they looking for comforting conversations?
@Mscuddlelover My first thought is you don't mention offering that as a service in your profile nor do you offer a rate for it (normally, rates for virtual are lower than for physical cuddles). There was a thread about virtual cuddling early in May (I'm out, so can't find the link just now, but can look when I am back).
Band Members? Like Beatles it The Doors or something ?
One thing I always do is ask my cuddle buddies if there’s anywhere they don’t want to be touched. Aside from the no touch zones that the site states, people may have other areas they may not want to be touched. Examples are, I’ve had a cuddle buddy ask me to not touch her face because she breaks out easily, I had another ask me to not touch her ears because her hearing is really sensitive, I had another ask me to not mess up her bangs. I’d rather ask at the start of a session and avoid an issue later.
So I’m a professional who got his account unpaused due to me posting in cereal discussion can anyone tell me how do I go about promoting my services without breaking the rules ??