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What to wear when cuddling?
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FlowerofLife (deleted user)
January 2017
Some of my clients become aroused, and some get embarrassed. I remind them that it's a natural, human function. I don't bring it up (no pun intended), just ask if they can move it to the side, or something. Once the attention is off of that, then we're able to continue with our cuddles;-)
netrunner
January 2017
Depending on where I'm cuddling with someone and our comfort level with one another determines what I'm wearing. If it's at my place or in some cases at a hotel while traveling I prefer to cuddle in soft pant or basketball shorts and a t-shirt all the way down to being nude. I really don't care being nude in front of a stranger or clothed if the intent is non-sexual. That's not to say I won't get turned on at any point, but I think having to option to be that open when cuddling with someone is freeing.
The person I'm cuddling with can wear anything from jeans and a t-shirt to yoga pants to booty shorts and a tank top to bra and panties to being nude. It all comes down to your comfort level and the comfort level of the person you're cuddling with as to what each person agrees to while cuddling.
@FlowerofLife
that is a great point. Yes, sometimes people do get turned on while cuddling... it's a natural, human function. Doesn't mean you have to act on it or let it ruin a great cuddle session because it happened
Michael890
January 2017
I feel like naked cuddles are best. Skin on skin contact feels so relaxing and intimate. Clearly I would never pull on a woman's clothes or try to pressure her to go nude right away if she isn't comfortable.
the8source
January 2017
Something comfortable
Unknown (deleted user)
January 2017
When I cuddle with pros, I always wear shorts and a t shirt.
greenearth2
January 2017
One thing that sucks is when pros where jeans or long sleeve shirts...
thecigarclub (deleted user)
January 2017
Some of the new pros in LA are wearing hazmat suits
Alternis (deleted user)
January 2017
I thought it was normal to wear something comfortable like shorts and a shirt. I don't think I would ever repeat a session with someone who wears jeans and long sleeves because it would give me the vibe that im not welcome there.
Unknown (deleted user)
January 2017
Whenever I've hired pros, I usually ask them to wear what I want them to wear and I've never had much pushback. Of course I never ask them to be naked or wear lingerie. I generally ask them to wear shorts and a tank top.
smoothOperator (deleted user)
January 2017
edited January 2017
Light clothing (e.g. T-shirts and shorts) are good enough for me. I don't trust myself to keep things platonic with a woman (meaning my hormones won't flare up automatically), so unless a lady is prepared for what typically follows, light clothing is fine.
chococuddles (deleted user)
January 2017
Underoos.
If I'm feeling goody-goody I go with Captain America.
If I'm feeling goofy I go with Spider-man.
If I go with Wonder Woman...well...that's classified.
greenearth2
February 2017
@reurbo
you really think jeans is comfortable to cuddle in/with!? lol that's funny
thecigarclub (deleted user)
February 2017
edited February 2017
If you're happy and you know it clap your hands *clap clap*
aaronchi
February 2017
There is a pro on here that does spanking videos. Just sayin...
Brandi
February 2017
@Thecigarclub
You could have tagged me if you wanted. It would have made this more fair so I could at least defend myself! If you have something you'd like to say to me, I already messaged you directly to get the problem that you have out of the way. But, obviously, you're too immature to talk to me one-on-one since you accepted my apology through private messages a few days ago, yet, you're still somehow talking down upon me to this day? :P silly silly.
I used to do cam shows, fetish clips, and I even to this day still attend foot parties. All that is none of your business, or anyone else's business. My past is my past, and I'm not ashamed of it nor would I change anything. I have grown to be a beautiful woman through all of that and it made me who I am today. While I'm on this site, I am respecting their site and their rules, as well as myself in the process. You don't see anyone mentioning what you've done in the past...and EVERYONE has done something in the past. I genuinely take cuddle therapy seriously and I don't mess around with anything to break the rules...hell, I even offered you a session. Maybe you should take me up on the offer since you seem to be so obsessed with me!
So may I help you with something? because I would like the respect of everyone else, just as I am giving you respect by not subtly talking about you to other people in forums (that would be...high school gossip! And I think we should all be done with that by this point lol). Thank you
greenearth2
February 2017
I just wish though that this idea that preferring a cuddler to wear leggings and a tank top means you want sex cause that's just bullshit. It's not true.
I respect boundaries.
I had snugglers not wear pants and I kept my hands off her private areas anyways. Well the yeast infection made that more likely that I would avoid it but still. I would have avoided it either way.
But hey each to their own.
netrunner
February 2017
@Morpheus
I think only once I've asked for a cuddler to wear something specific, but as long as it's a reasonable request, something basic, then I'm glad to hear you've never had push back on it. You never know unless you ask, right?
docgatorb
February 2017
I like the hazmat suits or maybe Star Wars Trooper armor, no risk of wardrobe failure.
Unknown (deleted user)
February 2017
@reurbo
yessir that is true
netrunner
February 2017
edited February 2017
@docgatorb
cuddle with a Storm Trooper.... would be interesting. Would they be as good at cuddling as they are at shooting though?
docgatorb
February 2017
They're not that good at shooting.
Unknown (deleted user)
February 2017
I think that was his point lol
netrunner
February 2017
Yep.. that was the point lol
smoothOperator (deleted user)
February 2017
@Thecigarclub
I thought things were more relaxed over there on the west coast.
KaitlynJP (deleted user)
February 2017
I prefer to wear pajama bottoms or yoga pants, sports bra and a tank top. For my cuddle buddy, I'd prefer them to be comfortable, maybe sweats or basketball shorts and a t shirt or tank. Being clothed I think is really important. I think that the human body is beautiful, clothed or nude, but I'd like to keep my body for me and my significant other.
greenearth2
February 2017
@KaitlynJP
please move to california.
we need you
I_am_Polylover
February 2017
First of all I'd dress in a manner that my cuddle partner is comfortable with, making sure of what that is beforehand. If she is comfortable with nude cuddling, I'd certainly be willing to do that since I am a long time nudist. I doubt I'd be any more likely to get an erection nude than I would clothed. However, erections do occur sometimes, and if the woman I'm cuddling with is okay feeling it against her, I'd be comfortable leaving it there without embarrassment. Of course, if it makes her uncomfortable, I'd certainly shift position so she is more comfortable. Just because an erection happens, doesn't mean that any action needs to be taken. The bottom line is that I'll never do anything purposely to make a cuddle partner uncomfortable.
bondman45
February 2017
I came here just to read the comments. some are useful others are just down right funny.
CA n you imagine just for a moment arranging a cuddle party or a one on one session just to relax listen to music not much talking and people just want to unwind. And someone says " illl be wearing a tuxedo the whole time and the lady wearing a expensive gown like you she just came from the Grammy's ... people are way over thinking this. its a freaking cuddle. how do you cuddle with your pet at home like a dog? the dog wants to sit on your lap and just rest its head on your lap.. maybe you get lucky and the dog starts licking your toes. you do that to a pro cuddler and you get weird looks.
most cuddles are casual people regular stuff. enjoy the laugh
comecuddlewme (deleted user)
February 2017
Im new here and ive noticed in these forums there are a bunch of pervs here and it makes really uncomfortable to know that alot of men in here are looking for sex I didnt know that was what this was for I mean have some respect for these women Im unsure if i want to be here now
Unknown (deleted user)
February 2017
Whoever
@comecusdlewme
was, they were here long enough to call us all perves and then left lol
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