empathkat

36 - Woman - West Allis, Wisconsin, US
Fee: 80/hour - Can be: Host, Guest, Public
Professional

About me

I'm hoping to be a soft place to rest amidst the middle of the chaos.

Whether you want a "basic" laid-back cuddle, or a highly tailored and therapeutic session, or something in between - I've got you covered.

A few things that I strive to offer consistently:

+High level of attentiveness
+Warmth and sensitivity
+Acceptance and appreciation of your authentic self
+A pretty well-rounded sense of humor

Sessions can be tailored to your unique preferences and needs, so long as those are within the platonic boundaries & any additional boundaries that we set together. I want to get to know and understand you, so that the experience is as fulfilling as it can be. So please don't hesitate to talk with me about any aspect of your experience the comes to mind.

We can talk our way down rabbit holes, or we can just enjoy a meditative silence, and everything in between. Everything is shared in confidence, as you would expect from a talk therapy session.
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+Low risk: I don't take payment unless you are happy with your session.
+Feeling unsure? Request a complementary brief video call to talk more and help you decide whether or not we're a good fit.
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Virtual sessions available (ideal for those who would benefit from some informal talk therapy, an accountability partner, and/or live far away)
~$40/hour
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+7 years as a cuddle therapist as of May 2026
+Cuddlist trained (2023)
+Cuddle Sanctuary trained (2020)
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My background:

My formal education is in Clinical Psychology (undergraduate degree) and Clinical Mental Health Counseling (most of a graduate degree). I've worked primarily as a caregiver for kids and adults with developmental disabilities and mental health challenges.

I’ve also had an abundance of “life training” through intentionally learning and growing from all of my relationships (with friends, family, partners, colleagues), and by working through my own health challenges. I have developed and continue to grow a pretty strong skillset in interpersonal relationships, somatic healing, nutrition, mental health work, etc.
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**I am typically slow to respond and a little difficult to book with, as I have several chronic health conditions that affect my availability and general bandwidth. The quality of our sessions won't be significantly impacted; there are a few small accommodations I might ask for. I am happy to talk about this in more detail. The good news: My health issues have significantly contributed to my levels of compassion and sensitivity, so there is a benefit to you:)

To expedite the booking process, please read the information I've provided in my photo gallery, and share your thoughts with me.
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Current availability as of April 2026:
M-F
9 am – noon
3 pm – 6 pm

+Mostly available for outcalls at this time
+If you need a session during different days/hours than listed, feel free to ask, and I’ll see what I can do.

Rates & Services

1 Hour+
$80

Facts

Join Date May 2019
Cuddles Everyone
Can be Host, Guest, Public
Preferred Days Mon, Tue, Wed, Thu, Fri
Preferred Times Morning, Afternoon
Location: West Allis, WI
Height 5' 4"
Body Type Slim
Car Owner Yes
Pets 2 cats
Drinks No
Smokes No

teplo


1 month ago

I consider myself fortunate for having such a wonderful time and experience with Kat. I appreciate the efforts she made to make me feel welcomed and comfortable during scheduling and the session itself. She puts her heart in what she does and that made me feel relaxed, warm and cared for. Thank you!

Big_Jim53007


1 month ago

I'm not good with words, so whatever I say here can't fully express what a truly amazing woman she is and how wonderful my time was with her. I was so nervous waiting for her to show up, which she did and was very prompt. Her demeanor calmed me immediately, and I had the most wonderful time that I can't put into words. She was exactly what I needed to fill my spirit. I never wanted to let her go... She's warm, kind, thoughtful, insightful, inquisitive, nurturing, sweet, happy, loving, and an amazing cuddler. I can't wait to spend time with her again. She is priceless. ❤️

Thewalkingman2


1 month ago

What a wonderful cuddle I had with Kat. She is a special person, a new friend, and a comfort to be around. I enjoyed myself and felt refreshed after our cuddle session. I'm looking forward to seeing her again.

Gary5


4 months ago

Adding my belated review from seeing her a year ago. She was my first professional cuddler and she was amazing. What a wonderful experience! I count myself so lucky to have found her. I received valuable insights from her and all the warmth and touch I desperately needed. Eleven out of ten.

deleted cuddler


1 year ago

Great person, very professional and know just what to say and to do.

deleted cuddler


1 year ago

Kat is an incredibly wonderful human being. Incredibly professional, soulful and progressive. She asked to get to know me first, general things but then let me feel secure enough to share more personal details. It’s about balance with her. My initial attempt to meet her was bad timing and she wasn’t available. However, something about her told me to be persistent. I’m so overjoyed my patience paid off. I couldn’t have asked for a nicer person to meet. 10 stars. ✨

deleted cuddler


2 years ago

I had a wonderful virtual chat with Kat. She is emotionally very intelligent. I hope to talk to her again soon.

c•••••e


2 years ago

Amazing cuddler! Very easy going and tremendous amount of positive energy that puts you at ease. Definitely a repeat!

deleted cuddler


3 years ago

Had a wonderful time with her. From the beginning very welcoming, accommodating, and professional. No problem with communication or booking. Kat is also joy to be around, so a perfect cuddle partner for anyone new, a little shy, or just don't know how to start. She will guide you through the process and is very informative/passionate.

deleted cuddler


3 years ago

Kat is an absolutely wonderful human being! I would describe her as the perfect cuddle partner. She is affectionate, honest, and sweet natured. You should all be lucky enough to have a cuddle with Kat! 10/10☺️

g•••••z


3 years ago

I had such a wonderful time talking to Kat. 😊 She is a very caring person. We will definitely have more conversations in the future.

M•••••3


3 years ago

My experience with Kat was excellent from start to finish.

With me being a newbie, Kat was gracious enough to take the time to explain how a typical session would go and answered all of my questions without judgment. It took me a bit to work up the courage to reach out but she instantly put my mind at ease.

Setting up our session was easy, and she is very helpful in this regard.

On the day of, Kat made sure I was able to find the session location without issue. Upon arrival, she was warm and welcoming and made every effort to ensure that I was comfortable. It was clear that her goal was to create a calming atmosphere, which she is great at.

Throughout the entire session, Kat was very accommodating to my specific needs, and made sure to check-in periodically to make sure I felt safe and comfortable with how things were going. Talking with her felt natural, like I was talking to someone I’ve known for years. I was able to get things off my chest in a way that is usually hard for me, and Kat was great at both listening and responding without judgment.

I recommend Kat without hesitation. I would leave more than 5 stars if I could.

deleted cuddler


3 years ago

Very sweet and friendly person! Always checks in to make sure you are doing alright. And she gives amazing back scratches! 10/10

C•••••t


3 years ago

Amazing experience with a intelligent woman filled with empathy, warmth, caring and extremely attentive. She was able to put me at ease and the conversation and communication were excellent. The time just flew by.
Just a Beautiful soul who I hope to see again.

JTrip549


3 years ago

Such a warm, wonderful, caring, thoughtful, person! A true empath and a fantastic cuddler. I look forward to being able to book with Kat again!

M•••••7


4 years ago

What a wonderful, caring and thoughtful person Kat is...! So attentive, sweet and made fell entirely comfortable as soon as our session started. Amazing cuddler and great communicator!!

deleted cuddler


4 years ago

Cuddling with Kat felt natural. As others have mentioned she is attentive. If you are hesitating on making trying out cuddle therapy Kat can certainly help you.

Stephen97


5 years ago

Kat is awesome! Very attentive, down to earth, and laid back. Highly recommend!

genuinebm


5 years ago
repeat client

Empathkat, Thanks so much for the positive feedback. Of course your sessions are second to none! I appreciate your warmth, insight, compassion, empathy and wonderful cuddles. I look forward to seeing you again!

c•••••1


5 years ago

Kat is a very professional and very considerate cuddler. She is a great communicator and is always checking in to make sure expectations are met. She exceeded expectations in every way possible. I highly recommend.

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