Yes, what a great feed. I discovered the joy of cuddling about 3 years ago. That is when I realized it is such an amazing way for two humans to get to know one another. It does take trust and open communication. It also helps one become self-aware. I came to a place where I wanted to have my thriving needs met and nurture people (my kids are grown and I do not have pets). I got reconnected to our local cuddle community about 6 months ago and deepened into the experience. I believe so much in the healing powers of safe, non-sexual touch that I become a pro. it warms up our world! It helps to heal the gap between men and women and people in general as I am open to cuddle anyone and everyone who agrees to the agreements. We all need some nurturing touch. I love when one relaxes and just receives!! I was in a marriage for 16 years where my partner was not open to receive. That was painful and in the past. I am so grateful for this wonderful courageous and fun community!!!
Someone in my social media circle recommended this site. A friend of her knew a veteran cuddler on this site.
During my college days I would snuggle with my close friends & fictious sisters. Now I have been lonely and touch deprived for years. So I am hoping to meet someone for cuddles.
Had my first cuddle session last week. Amazed at how connected I felt to someone I knew nothing about, left feeling as if I knew him on a such a deeper level. I have a deep sense of care attached to him 😊
I haven't had any experiences with cuddling or hugging .
All the best
Ive absolutely loved cuddling but I feel I’m running out of cuddlers in my area … any suggestions 🫠🫠
@Beary_lovable It's OK to repeat with past clients
I’m here to check out the site. I haven’t been in a relationship for a while.. and just miss being held.
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In college I had a couple of gal friends who were cuddlers. Some kissing but mostly just held each other, spooning and light massage. Looking back I thought it was pretty unique, but very comforting overall.
Being older nowadays, I don't get spontaneous erections, so there isn't any awkwardness of that happening during a cuddling session.
Still waiting for a cuddle session or someone to cuddle. Haven’t had anyone to cuddle in forever.
no ads -Stormy
I came here to find some cuddle buddies!!! I’m new here!!
It's odd how many women ive met in person from here who end up being prostitutes trying to demand 500 for sex. its getting frustrating because, i have a sex partner, but she doesnt like touching at all unless its sex. I come on here and its a bunch of unattractive hookers listed as regular people.
That’s a shame chocolatejack. Hoping for the best
Separated from my husband 7 years but still married, with a non effectionate boyfriend whom Im living with going on 3 years now....just kinda feel alone and sad part of the time.... It would help, having a friend who loved cuddling and was affectionate.
I was married for over 41 years to a loving person who was a great cuddler. She passed away 3 years ago and that is when I went searching for something exactly like cuddle comfort. Every pro cuddler I've been with has been very nice and none have ever suggested sex. I always research a much as possible and I've been incredibly fortunate with my choices. In 3 years I've cuddled about 80 times and only 1 was not exactly what I wanted. The young lady had just returned home from a trip and she was so tired she slept almost all of the 2 hours. I did get to hold her but I also would have liked some communication. I totally love this place and I cherish the people I've gotten to know.
I was extremely happy to find this site years ago. I am a very touchy-feely, affectionate person and can be that way with women, non-sexually. I’ve had a few great cuddle buddies, in the past, that last for many months. These special friendships usually come to an end when she either finds a lover (or reunites with him/her) or wants something more of a relationship from me. When I found this site I felt I found “my people”. It’s not awkward and it’s a lot easier to find a cuddle enthusiast (or professional cuddler) that feels the same way that I do.
The snuggle is real! I love that there is a space where we can request the physical connection we desire. I think safe words are important because this type of contact puts us in a vulnerable place. A cuddle is beautiful but very vulnerable and sometimes its important to step back or speak up.
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I love being cozy! My favorite is being hugged on while getting my back rubbed. So relaxing 😌
Yes, I am a 47 year old man living in Simi Valley California. I’m just looking for a cuddle buddy. I’m very affectionate. I haven’t cuddled in a while so any of you ladies are interested please hit me up.
in the future out cuddle requests in the cuddle request forum -Stormy
My first session, we went out for a couple drinks to break the ice, spent a couple hours vibing and getting to know each other, then asked if I wanted to come cuddle. I said yes, things went good until I got hiccups at 3am and he literally turned over, sighed, and said, “I have to be up in 2 hours.” I said I was so sorry and offered to move out to the couch because I lived 45 min away and he said “no”. So I drove 45 min at 3:00am mad and hurt as hell.
Is this kind of crap common here?
@SpookySnugBunny I'm really sorry you had that experience, especially having to drive home in unsafe conditions. That's a genuinely scary position to be in. 🫂
I do want to gently name something: an overnight, first-time session with alcohol involved is a really high-risk combination, and that's true regardless of who's hosting. A lot of us who've been in this space a while actively avoid that mix, because:
That said, it was his space, and just like you'd be free to leave or change your mind at any time, he was also free to end the session when he needed to. Neither of you did anything "wrong" in the sense of breaking rules, but the lack of upfront conversation about logistics set you both up for a rough, confusing ending.
For future sessions, especially with someone new: shorter, sober, daytime meetups are a much safer way to build trust before trying anything overnight. If you do plan an overnight, talk through sleep needs, wake times, and an end time before you get there, and always have your own way home lined up just in case.
I hope this doesn't sour you on cuddling in general. This was a rough first experience, but it's not representative of how all sessions go.
I cuddle about 2 or 3 times a month. Sometimes I’ll go weeks without doing a cuddle session but then I come back to it and be like “this is so amazing”. Even really long cuddle sessions (eg 6+ hours) go by really fast.