EllieCuddlebug

58 - Woman - San Rafael, California, US
"I like to cuddle while talking, listening to music, or being silent...."

About me

I am kind, sensitive, empathic and health conscious. I’m looking for Marin county local cuddle buddies or cuddle buddies willing to travel to Marin county only.

Ideally I am wanting to develop a small supportive local “cuddle puddle - community“, based on the rules/ boundaries of platonic consensual touch established within the Cuddle party format and this website. For me this creates a safe container for developing new cuddle and friendship connections with other like-minded beings.

Safe, nurturing, holding and touch are basic human needs. We are literally hardwired for it and most of us don’t get enough of it. I know it can be very healing to the body and soul. Touch or holding literally can foster a sense of well-being for both the giver and receiver: I love its symbiotic nature.

In fact, when there is a higher resonance within a cuddle connection, it can be what I call a corrective, somatic healing experience, and what a gift that is from the universe! Those types of relationships and resonances are usually something that develop over time for me, however, on rare occasions sometimes it happens with a new connection.

If you’d like to possibly meet, please know that I’d prefer to host, but I’m willing to be a guest in someone’s home as long as they do not own a cat and are in Marin. Unfortunately, I have severe cat allergies 😢 and I don’t travel much these days (just in Marin county).

I like to have a brief phone conversation first and then meet for tea or at the park to give us both a sense whether we mutually feel like cuddling together. It's helpful if you have a profile picture or are willing to send me a current picture (any selfie will do, as long as it’s within the last 30 days) - I like to get a sense of a person's energy early on; of course, I am happy to do the same. If we decide to cuddle, basic cleanliness and smell are important to me: I like natural smells as I am chemically sensitive - clean human smells and essential oils are great, and it's always extra nice to snuggle someone who has recently bathed!

I’ve listed that I want to cuddle with “women” in my profile, but really gender is not as important to me as the person. I selected women to narrow the algorithm search-ability strategically. 😉 Plus, I’d really like to focus on supporting a network of women who are like-minded and valued cuddling as part of their self-care regime.

I will consider cuddling with a man if he is local. However, I’m primarily looking for female cuddle buddies at this point. We all need a safe container to connect in and my heart goes out to women who are having a hard time getting their platonic touch means met. Basically, in my experience, this site is primarily men and professional cuddlers; there are very few active female cuddle enthusiasts on this site. However, I want to hold space in hopes to be a part of changing that in the months and years ahead. 😊

Btw, I’m not heavily into the massage thing while in a cuddle sessions. Generally, in my experience, that been a strategy that men have used as a gateway to escalate into more sensual or sexual intimacy. This is not the place for that and those are not the type of connections I am looking for. I keep clear communication and boundaries in and around that and I expect whomever I cuddle with, to do the same.

A caveat, however, is I do love it when I can get a good foot massage. 😉 It is very grounding for me. One of my healing practitioners recently said, it is the gateway with my system to opening up more to receiving more healing, because I’m so responsive. I can definitely take in the nourishment at the feet if the touch is right. Maybe that’s because of all the meridian lines there and there are more nerve endings there than anywhere else on the body?

And I’m also realizing one of the things I am missing without being in a more traditional partnership now is the cuddling that is involved with watching a movie or a show together. I’m currently entertaining the possibility of how that might work with some established cuddle relationships. The other awareness that I recently bubbled up for me is remembering how much I love to be read too well cuddling. That’s an activity that in the past has been primarily reserved for being in my long-term relationships but seems like a silly limitation now

The bottom line in my opinion is “cuddle- time” is Happy-time! 😊

P.S. I’m reluctant to bring this up since it’s been such a polarizing issue in our culture these days: I am unvaccinated currently on the advice of my medical team. I have some autoimmune challenges (nothing contagious) and I am very conservative with who and how I am interacting with others


And if we meet, I like to make a “cuddle space “ with a camping mat on my living room floor for cuddle connection. In addition, I also have a loveseat that can be used for a cuddling connection if that’s preferred. Options in my opinion foster choice and alignment with one’s true Self. (I am a big advocate for supporting that…)


I am more than a “Cuddle Enthusiast” (which is how this site defines those of us who are non-paid professional cuddlers). I am realizing I have evolved into a Cuddle Evangelist. What I mean by that is, I am enthusiastically wanting to help people understand the value in the benefits of developing healthy, safe, platonic, Cuddle connections. I am with another dear friend/cuddle, buddy, consciously building a network within this network of like-minded individuals for this kind of supportive community connection. 🤗🤗🤗 May it be so…🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

Facts

Join Date October 2021
Orientation Straight
Status Single
Cuddles Women
Can be Host, Guest, Public
Preferred Days Sun, Mon, Tue, Wed, Thu, Fri, Sat
Preferred Times Morning, Afternoon, Evening, Night
Preferred Age 35 - 75
Fav. Movie A Xmass story & It’s a wonder…
Fav. TV Show Friends, Steinfield, Ted Lasso
Location: San Rafael, CA
Height 5' 2"
Body Type Average
Car Owner Yes
Pets None
Drinks Rarely
Smokes No
Ethnicity White
Religion Other

RobinSunshine


8 months ago

EllieCuddleBug’s name describes her perfectly, open-hearted, sweet, playful, with a childlike joy! Cuddling with Ellie is not only fun and giggly, but also deeply nurturing; I feel seen and accepted by her exactly as I show up.

dylantw


8 months ago

Ellie radiates kindness. She is open, warm, and comfortable setting and communicating boundaries. She has treated me with the utmost kindness and respect.

I met Ellie at a Sacred Touch workshop, which is adjacent to cuddling. We matched immediately, and were immediately comfortable with eachother and had clear chemistry. Ellie encouraged me to work through some of my shame and reservations, and I found my interaction with her to be very healing. We have spoken several times since and those conversations have only solidified my view of her as a spiritual healer. ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️

c•••••_


10 months ago

She's a really nice, open armed, cuddle loving, kind person.

m•••••s


1 year ago

With her delightful personality and caring nature, EllieCuddlebug is truly a gem. She created the perfect environment with gentle conversation and warm, soothing cuddles.

I was especially impressed with her commitment to building a safe cuddle community and her willingness to happily exchange resources with like-minded cuddle enthusiasts.

Meeting with her was an absolute joy, and I am looking forward to cuddling with EllieCuddlebug again!

C•••••s


1 year ago

I had a chance to cuddle with Ellie in a cuddle pile at a Cuddle Party event. She is one of the most delightful, kind, generous, warm, special cuddlers I have met through CC. We giggled and gave kindness and tenderness throughout the cuddle time. Excellent communicator. Cuddling with her is a TREAT and a party.

deleted cuddler


1 year ago

I had the great fortune to be able to cuddle with Ellie twice while I was in the Bay Area recently! Ellie is such a wonderful soul and I'm so glad I had the opportunity to spend time with her. We had such wonderful, cozy cuddles together. She is an incredibly kind, caring, thoughtful, and perceptive person. I sure hope to wind up out there again someday. ❤️

boyandhisdog


1 year ago


Ellianna is a kind and generous soul.

In our first phone conversation it was clear she knows what she wants how to express it and made her boundaries clear.
She is an insiteful and engaged cuddler. At the end of our cuddle I had a deep sense of peace.

JessNH


1 year ago

Ellianna is a treasure.
Such a kind warm and genuine heart. She exudes compassion and is a platonic cuddling fairy ninja.

Looking for plutonic cuddles can be interesting...

From the first phone conversation it was very clear that safe, consensual, platonic cuddles are something that she has turned into an art. I very much appreciated her ability to model good boundaries and hold space for my experience. I feel so grateful for kindred magical nature friends. Our platonic cuddle connection was phenomenal and fun!
All accolades and blessings to Ellianna:)

K•••••B


1 year ago

I first met Ellie at a cuddle party and found her to be kind, warm, and very respectful. I was fortunate enough to be able to cuddle with her again at a women's cuddle party, and the time flew by so quickly! She is a real gem.

Spending time with Ellie is a treat and I am blessed to have her as a friend. I very much look forward to seeing her again. 😀

BestHugz


1 year ago

Ellie is a top tier cuddler! So wonderfully warm and inviting, she creates an excellent container to experience such an amazing cuddle experience. She has excellent communication & consent skills, enjoys so many cuddle positions, and time just melts away with her. She's such a wonderful person to connect with!

e•••••y


1 year ago

I had the pleasure of meeting Ellianna through Cuddle Comfort, and she is truly exceptional as a cuddle partner. From the moment we connected, her openness and excellent communication skills stood out. She’s thoughtful, clear, and incredibly respectful, making it easy to feel comfortable and understood.

Ellianna has also gone above and beyond in creating a welcoming and beautiful space for cuddling. Her attention to detail and thoughtfulness in setting up the environment make it clear how much she values creating a positive and respectful experience.

What sets her apart is her dedication to building a network of like-minded, consent-based individuals. She genuinely fosters a sense of community and connection, which adds so much depth and meaning to the experience.

If you’re looking for a cuddle partner who embodies kindness and a commitment to mutual respect, I can’t recommend Ellianna enough.

Fuffybunnyfeet


1 year ago

Do not pass up an opportunity to cuddle with her. She is busy and it might take a little extra time to set up an appointment , but it is worth it. She has such a beautiful soul and has a truly altruistic heart. I am always nervous meeting new people and while it’s still took me a little time to relax, I felt so comfortable towards the end. I honestly feel very honored to cuddle with her and I think so many people would be happier if they had the chance to cuddle with her as well.

deleted cuddler


1 year ago

Late post. I had a great session with Ellianna. She goes above and beyond to create a really calming safe cuddle space. She is a golden hearted person who you can feel completely relaxed with. She is great to converse as well. I generally feel nervous around new people but not with her. If we were not too far, I would have loved to regularly meet for cuddles.

SonaW


2 years ago

I'm so glad I got to cuddle with Ellianna! She was gracious, open and warm. Her home and cuddle space were lovely and comfortable. That along with the transparent and vulnerable way she communicated put me instantly at ease. I also enjoyed her presence and childlike expressions of excitement and joy. Cuddling with Ellianna was deliciously soothing and definitely lifted my spirit.

cuddlersid


2 years ago

Ellianna is real gem of a person. She makes you feel very comfortable & has cozy cuddling setup. She is a sweetheart and super warm person. It’s really relaxing and stress relieving to cuddle with her. I would highly recommend cuddling with her even if her location is far from you. Trust me it’s totally worth it. I’m glad we did connect well and friends for a while now.

C•••••y


2 years ago

Ellie is a truly special human being, and really gets what CuddleComfort and Cuddle Therapy is all about. She creates a wonderfully warm, welcoming, and joyful healing environment, and is an absolutely sincere friend and Cuddle-partner. It is absolutely worth the effort to connect with Ellie whenever you get the chance!

R•••••s


2 years ago

The stars finally aligned snd I was able to meet for an unforgettable session with Ellianna. We have been friends for some time had not gotten to meet until now. Ellianna hosted in her beautiful space and our time together was so relaxing! What a blessing it was to meet up with this wonderful, kind, caring, and compassionate human being.

AMF


2 years ago

Ellianna is a great cuddle buddy! Her nickname of cuddle bug is well deserved. She instantly made me feel safe and comfortable.
We’ve had several Cuddle Connection‘s at this point and are continuing to deepen our connection. A budding friendship is resulting between us. I am glad to have met her.
If you connect with her, you will know that you are safe, cared for, and held with compassion.

deleted cuddler


3 years ago

She is kind, sweet, thoughtful and warm hearted. It is healing to meet with her, and i wish i could meet more people like her. This is not just me sharing, also the animals who live around her beautiful house.

The day we spoke over the phone, Ellie had to disconnect and call back. She told me about mama deer who gave birth to 2 babies in her backyard, whom she had to attend. She sent me pictures of them. Why would mama deer pick that place? duh?! safe, positive energy.

The day we met for cuddling, her dear friend, a squirrel came up to the window and knocked to inform her that he is waiting for some snacks. Ellie fed the squirrel friend with some walnuts. He is a daily visitor, sometimes alone and sometimes with his other squirrel friends.

The next day she sent me pic of a fox, who came to visit her. That was a mama fox seeking some attention.

Well these Karma points are also from all her animal friends.

Thank you for being you, Ellie!

softspace


3 years ago

If I could rate Ellie higher than 5 stars, I would. The most important components for cuddling for me are authenticity, ability to build emotional closeness, and trust in communication. She brings a real-ness that is so refreshing to witness and participate in.

Aside from a deep sense of kinship, Ellie has created a meticulously crafted healing space. It’s so nurturing that even wild animals have claimed it as their own sanctuary. Her presence, too, is soothing. She has a soft voice and kind eyes. She has a self-clarity that is inspirational to be around. Her celebration of others is coupled with clarity of values and specificity of language - basically her compliments acknowledged parts of me that I didn't even know needed tenderness.

We’ve been fortunate enough to have had just a couple sessions together, and I’m looking forward to many more. I'm deeply grateful to her unwavering sense of acceptance and affection. Thank you Ellie <3

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