About me
I am kind, sensitive, empathic and health conscious. I’m looking for Marin county local cuddle buddies or cuddle buddies willing to travel to Marin county only.
Ideally I am wanting to develop a small supportive local “cuddle puddle - community“, based on the rules/ boundaries of platonic consensual touch established within the Cuddle party format and this website. For me this creates a safe container for developing new cuddle and friendship connections with other like-minded beings.
Safe, nurturing, holding and touch are basic human needs. We are literally hardwired for it and most of us don’t get enough of it. I know it can be very healing to the body and soul. Touch or holding literally can foster a sense of well-being for both the giver and receiver: I love its symbiotic nature.
In fact, when there is a higher resonance within a cuddle connection, it can be what I call a corrective, somatic healing experience, and what a gift that is from the universe! Those types of relationships and resonances are usually something that develop over time for me, however, on rare occasions sometimes it happens with a new connection.
If you’d like to possibly meet, please know that I’d prefer to host, but I’m willing to be a guest in someone’s home as long as they do not own a cat and are in Marin. Unfortunately, I have severe cat allergies 😢 and I don’t travel much these days (just in Marin county).
I like to have a brief phone conversation first and then meet for tea or at the park to give us both a sense whether we mutually feel like cuddling together. It's helpful if you have a profile picture or are willing to send me a current picture (any selfie will do, as long as it’s within the last 30 days) - I like to get a sense of a person's energy early on; of course, I am happy to do the same. If we decide to cuddle, basic cleanliness and smell are important to me: I like natural smells as I am chemically sensitive - clean human smells and essential oils are great, and it's always extra nice to snuggle someone who has recently bathed!
I’ve listed that I want to cuddle with “women” in my profile, but really gender is not as important to me as the person. I selected women to narrow the algorithm search-ability strategically. 😉 Plus, I’d really like to focus on supporting a network of women who are like-minded and valued cuddling as part of their self-care regime.
I will consider cuddling with a man if he is local. However, I’m primarily looking for female cuddle buddies at this point. We all need a safe container to connect in and my heart goes out to women who are having a hard time getting their platonic touch means met. Basically, in my experience, this site is primarily men and professional cuddlers; there are very few active female cuddle enthusiasts on this site. However, I want to hold space in hopes to be a part of changing that in the months and years ahead. 😊
Btw, I’m not heavily into the massage thing while in a cuddle sessions. Generally, in my experience, that been a strategy that men have used as a gateway to escalate into more sensual or sexual intimacy. This is not the place for that and those are not the type of connections I am looking for. I keep clear communication and boundaries in and around that and I expect whomever I cuddle with, to do the same.
A caveat, however, is I do love it when I can get a good foot massage. 😉 It is very grounding for me. One of my healing practitioners recently said, it is the gateway with my system to opening up more to receiving more healing, because I’m so responsive. I can definitely take in the nourishment at the feet if the touch is right. Maybe that’s because of all the meridian lines there and there are more nerve endings there than anywhere else on the body?
And I’m also realizing one of the things I am missing without being in a more traditional partnership now is the cuddling that is involved with watching a movie or a show together. I’m currently entertaining the possibility of how that might work with some established cuddle relationships. The other awareness that I recently bubbled up for me is remembering how much I love to be read too well cuddling. That’s an activity that in the past has been primarily reserved for being in my long-term relationships but seems like a silly limitation now
The bottom line in my opinion is “cuddle- time” is Happy-time! 😊
P.S. I’m reluctant to bring this up since it’s been such a polarizing issue in our culture these days: I am unvaccinated currently on the advice of my medical team. I have some autoimmune challenges (nothing contagious) and I am very conservative with who and how I am interacting with others
And if we meet, I like to make a “cuddle space “ with a camping mat on my living room floor for cuddle connection. In addition, I also have a loveseat that can be used for a cuddling connection if that’s preferred. Options in my opinion foster choice and alignment with one’s true Self. (I am a big advocate for supporting that…)
I am more than a “Cuddle Enthusiast” (which is how this site defines those of us who are non-paid professional cuddlers). I am realizing I have evolved into a Cuddle Evangelist. What I mean by that is, I am enthusiastically wanting to help people understand the value in the benefits of developing healthy, safe, platonic, Cuddle connections. I am with another dear friend/cuddle, buddy, consciously building a network within this network of like-minded individuals for this kind of supportive community connection. 🤗🤗🤗 May it be so…🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻