DonLonG

46 - Man - Paradise Valley, Arizona, US
"I like to cuddle while making fun of bad movies 📺 or listening to ♩♪♬♫"

About me

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Hi, I'm Don. Just to keep it real, despite what it may appear online, I'm a bit of an introvert. Don't get me wrong, I like going out and having fun, but I find my peace and have a more relaxing time just kicking back.

To me intimacy isn't about sex, it's about truth. When you realize you can tell someone your truth, when you can open yourself to them, and their response is "You're safe with me" - that's INTIMACY.

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I am a Heteroromantic Asexual, who also craves companionship, affection, and intimacy. I have never encountered anyone who was satisfied with platonic cuddling without wanting something more. The more I tried to slow down the relationship and keep it platonic, the more I was pressured to escalate.

I decided to stop dating years ago so I would unintentionally stop hurting others who were obviously looking for something more. With less than 1% of the population identifying as Asexual, I had resigned myself to a life of loneliness, until I discovered this community which has reignited the hope that I might find someone who is comfortable with a no-pressure platonic relationship.

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I love my nieces, 📹 photoshop, 📷 photography, ♛ games (Anyone here play chess?), studying useless knowledge, 📖 learning Spanish, Psychology/Sociology, anything 💻 computer or technology related.

I am passionate about 📺 movies. We can't truly be friends until you have seen some of my favorites which include: Serenity(2005), Age of Adaline, Tucker & Dale vs. Evil, Sucker Punch, and Repo! The Genetic Opera. 📨 Message me for my list of must-see movies you probably haven't seen

And of course, I am very passionate about community, belonging, and finding a real human connection. I am continuing to learn and grow so that I may one day find myself worthy enough to be with someone I can share my life force with, entangle it with theirs, transcending beyond all time or thought, and together, let all the cares of the world just melt away.

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Pros:
    😄  Love cold body parts.
    💻  Will fix your computer for cuddles.
    🎓  Federal contractor (Background checked).

Cons:
    🌙  Natural night owl.
    📻  Constantly references pop culture in conversations.
    💀  I can do a better Gollum impression than Andy Serkis.
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As Seen on TV:
https://www.cuddlecomfort.com/forum/discussion/6892/

For a sense of my personality:
https://www.cuddlecomfort.com/forum/discussion/comment/65655#Comment_65655

How I picked my username:
https://www.cuddlecomfort.com/forum/discussion/comment/61198/#Comment_61198

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Facts

Join Date September 2019
Orientation Straight, Asexual
Status
Cuddles Women
Can be Host, Guest, Public
Preferred Days Sun, Thu, Fri, Sat
Preferred Times Morning, Evening, Night
Fav. Movie Joss Whedon / Tim Curry
Fav. TV Show Black Mirror/The Office/GOT
Location: Paradise Valley, AZ
Height 5' 10"
Body Type Average
Car Owner Yes
Pets No, but my Patronus is Peter Pan
Drinks Rarely
Smokes No
Ethnicity White
Job Manager

WrenMaxwell82


2 years ago

I was in a very low place, needing a kind embrace, and having not met with anyone on here before, came to DonLonG because of his many positive reviews and good Karma. He proved not only to be as trustworthy as his reviews claimed, but he was incredibly generous and compassionate. I am glad he is the one I reached out to.

O•••••e


3 years ago

Oh my gosh what a cool person DonLonG is !😊 Have met with him a couple times now. Funny, smart, entertaining and just a really nice person. Glad to know you brother!!

q•••••e


4 years ago

Finally!!! I finally got to meet and cuddle with this beautiful being! I'd instantly connected with him in messaging and by phone, and in person was even better ~ Some people you just feel you've known and appreciated forever. His heart and soul are treat to be in connection with, he's genuine, reflective, witty and hella funny! I wish we'd had more time...
He was thoughtful about setting and respecting cuddle boundaries, has a perfect touch, and is a fantastic hugger/holder too!
Yep! Don is a delight to snuggle up and cuddle with and I can't wait until the next time I get to squish on this guy!!
ALL THE STARS!!
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SuperManCuddles


4 years ago

DonLong is awesome 😎!!! For many years, I appreciated his positive contributions to this site (especially in the forums). I was happy to finally get a chance to meet him. He has a great balance of conversation and enjoying quiet/relaxing moments too. He gives great hugs 🤗. Through his embraces, you can feel warmth, secure, genuine care and positive vibes!!! It was great to spend time DonLong!!! I highly recommend and can’t wait next time!!!

s•••••y


4 years ago

THIS GUY!!!! 🌈🌟😊 We can talk or video chat for hours, he is kind, insightful, openminded, as well as a purveyor of awareness, interesting thoughts, and ideas. We got to virtually watch a movie together which was super fun even though we couldn't watch it with cuddles (stinking COVID!!) He was in my airport but I was in a different state so we have been like two ships passing. I was supposed to be in AZ in July for business and we were going to get together then.... We have been corresponding now for almost a year. HE IS SO FREAKING AMAZING!!!
It is 100% accurate when @sideon said his truth comes through. His heart and mind are aligned and he shines so bright with an authenticity that is rare. Talk about a beautiful soul..... @DonLong has proven this throughout all of his communication with me as well as his activity on the forum. 🧡💜

10 stars. 🌟🌟🌟 TEN FREAKING STARS!!!!!
UPDATE!!!! WE FINALLY GOT TO SNUGGLE!! Mr. Don Long and his partner made it to my lovely state and we had a wonderful time, but his cuddles are amazing. He is so completely respectful and consistently trying to make sure that the people he is with are taken care of and comfortable. Talk about being willing to LEARN and not trying to push boundaries?? This man is a delightful human. THROUGH AND THROUGH!!!

10 stars would never be enough!!!

P•••••s


5 years ago

Don and I started out as pen pals covering 10 full CC message pages right off the bat, so we clicked. Durng a trip I took to Phoenix we met at Core Juice in Scottsdale AZ. Upon meeting he reached for a handshake and I went for a hug, which was a little awkward. An hour and a half later as we parted, he went for a warmer chest to chest hug. It was pretty evident that we had clicked yet again, and my guess is that we probably always will. Don is a down to earth cool guy and I'm not surprised that he is getting all the cuddles he wants and deserves. I'm envious and I have a lot to learn from him. I'm looking forward to more hang outs with this made for cuddles Renaissance man.

S•••••n


6 years ago

First off, we did NOT cuddle. This karma reflects the fact that who he says he is and how he acts are perfectly aligned.

I met this amazing man in a hotel lobby. Despite the wedding party that had taken over the hotel restaurant, and despite the live music that was blaring, Don and I sat near one another in overstuffed chairs and talked for hours. I'm sorry we weren't able to connect the following day and continue our conversations.

Don is authentic, real, and kind. I hope our paths cross again.

MissAdventurous


6 years ago

Don is one of those types of individuals who you have to meet to truly understand how much of a gem of a person he is. We had a wonderful time snuggled up, chatting and catching up over a movie while I was in town visiting. I felt safe and secure the entire time and truly enjoyed our time together. THANK YOU DON for being a complete gentleman and I hope you had a wonderful time, looking forward to meeting up down the road.

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